[JUSTIN6122]

My son moved back into my apartment, December 2011. He was attending college and did graduate. He had a job, which was considered as part time and barely made enough to pay his truck note and other bills. He did offer to help pay something, but as this was to be a temporary arrangement, I told him I would pay the bills until he finished college, and became more financially able to move out and get his own place again. Being a mother, and proud of his accomplishments, he did graduated, and had a good job, upon receiving his diploma. We had already gone through a prior altercation when he lived with me before, which led to him moving. He has provided gifts and helped me financially when I hadn't the means to. He also, served in the Navy, and has used his credit to purchase 2 used cars for me. I paid the notes, which wasn't very much, but now that the car is paid off, it's still in his name. I stopped making payments, November 2012, which was about 96.00, because I was the only one still paying all of the bills, including, rent, lights, water, phone, and internet. He makes close to 40k a year, and I'm struggling having to take two checks to pay them all separately. I only make 24k a year. And recently had surgery to remove my gallbladder. I'm on unpaid leave, due to being denied short term/long term disablility from my heart attack. I told him very calmly, that it was time to find his own place, and all hell broke loose. He started yelling outrageously, and followed me into my room, violently pushing the door open and knocking me to the floor. I'm only 2 weeks into my recovery, and unable to really defend myself. But I'm sick of him and he refuses to pay his way, or leave.
He's paid the entire electric bill twice, on two far in between occasions, and 220.00 toward the rent, knowing I don't have an income. Please help me find a way to get him out of my life. I'm stressed out, depressed, miserable, and unhappy. Why should an accomplished 28 year old man, get a free ride off his struggling mother, who has done everything to provide him a good home all of his life! Then he holds the car over my head, knowing it's my only means for work. He claims to have paid it off with his income tax, but I've made all the payments from 12-2010-11-2012, so it wasn't like he done me a favor, as he wasn't contributing to the bills. He's disrespectful, unappreciative, and told me he shouldn't have to pay nothing, cause he's the reason I have a job! He signed for the car, but I paid for it, and I found my own job. He's not on any drugs that I know of, and doesn't drink either. But with the evil and spiteful things he's done and said, I don't know what the real problem is, and I want all ties to be severed between us. I've heard of issues like this happening, but I never imagined it would happen to me. We used to have such a close mother/son connection, but now it's totally destroyed and irreconcilable as well.

[ballengerb1]

Your post is much too long and detailed so I am going with the title about evicting your son. You evict him like any othet tenant, by following the eviction laws in your state, where do you live. Usually start with a written, and I do mean written even though he is right in front of you, notice to vacate.