[lostinlove16]

Hello, I started seeing this girl about 5 months ago and she was living with her ex boyfriend at the time but the relationship had been over for years. We started seeing each other on an emotional basis for about 4 months and became very attached and yes we fell in love. She told me about 3 months into it and I to had very deep feelings for her. I still do. I have 2 daughters which I never allowed anyone into there lives until this one, because I was so sure of her and that we would spend a long time together if not forever. I brought her into our lives and during that short time she feel in love with my girls and my girls feel in love with her. When she moved out into her new place I thought that this was going to be our time and take our relationship to the next level as she wasn't living with her ex anymore. But I seen less and less of her sense she moved out as she would leave work and go over to his house because of his two daughter and would spend the night. It lasted for about 15 days and I had to say something because I didn't feel that it was right for her to be spending the night. I had no issues with her spending time over there because I knew that our relationship was secure and that she just wanted to make the transition with his kids smooth as she was with them for 4 years. When I spoke to her about that things changed and we haven't seen each other for over a week and a half. She tells me that she needs to figure stuff out and that she has to keep me at a distance because she doesn't want to hurt me. She doesn't tell me that she loves me or misses me and that she needs space. I have given her her space and it has been the hardest thing that I have ever done. She is the most amazing most beautiful woman I have ever met both inside and out and want nothing more then to be with her. I just want peoples opion on when she tells me she needs time is that just an easy out for her and we will slowly lose contact. She has told me that I make her feel like she has never felt and that she is mad because she doesn't know how to give it back at this moment. I told her that this is what a relationship is all about and that I want to be there for her and she tells me that I am crazy for wanting to be but I do. Please give me some insight into what I am supposed to do as me sitting here waiting for her to contact me is Hard!

[Homegirl 50]

You need to leave this alone. This is a 5 month relationship and she has been living with her ex all this time, why? 5 months is no time. She is either not done with the ex or she is not as in to you as you are in to her. Maybe she has met someone else. I think you need to step back and leave this alone.