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    jerzy_mail Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 24, 2013, 05:54 PM
    How do I tell a girl I really like her?
    Hi,
    So, the situation looks like this. I met a girl online (I know, pathetic, but that's not the point) and we talked and talked. It's been 3 months since we first talked to each other, but we haven't met yet because we live a little far from each other and had no time because of school/college. I don't know about her, but I really really like her and don't know how to tell her that. I mean, wouldn't it be a little creepy without even seeing each other? Wouldn't she just run away and be like "damn, he's too weird"? I know it's summer vacation soon and we'll probably meet eventually, but I really want to tell her what I feel and don't know what to do...
    I have to add, that I want us to be something more than just friends and that's why I don't know how to tell her that as we've just talked online but never face to face :)
    Hope to get some good advice :)
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    May 24, 2013, 06:13 PM
    Liking what you read about someone, or video chats, does not a relationship make. I wouldn't profess your feelings for her until you actually meet her, get to know her face to face.

    What's the rush in telling her that you want to be more than friends? You've only been chatting with her for 3 months.

    Wait. Get to know her. Don't dive into "love" or "more" until you actually meet.

    If some guy I met online, but never met in person, started telling me that he wants to be more than friends, I'd block him, and never talk to him again. It is creepy.

    Take things slow, there's no rush.

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