[FlyingArmadillo]

Me and my girlfriend are on break for 2 weeks and she still wants to text. In our relationship I figured out she is bi-sexual. Me and her were doing perfectly fine and then one day she seen one of her ex girlfriend she still had feelings for. I was OK with it but one day she asked me if its OK if they date for a week so she can see if she has changed like she said she has. I was OK with it thinking maybe this would help her get rid of mixed feelings, and when that week was over and she wasn't sure who she wanted.

I was going to break up with her on Wednesday because she gave it till then for her to make a decision because me and her just lost two kids we were close to, and on that Wednesday I was ignoring her for a while to kind of see if I was doing the right thing and at that moment her girlfriend broke up with her because she didn’t want to be happy. The whole time they were together me and her didn’t really talk much and after it was the same way. Before we would talk for like 2 hours on video chat like face time or skype. And we haven’t since then.

I told her we shouldn’t text still because the point of a break up is time apart. I didn’t tell her this though that I feel texting her might lead to just friends and I don’t want to just be friends. I love her and all I want is for things to be back the way it used to be. Any suggestions or opinions

[Homegirl 50]

I don't think I would want her back. Things are not going to be the same, what if she decides she wants to see someone else for a while, is that going to be OK with you too? How old are the two of you?

[FlyingArmadillo]

I don;t think I would want her back. Things are not going to be the same, what if she decides she wants to see someone else for a while, is that going to be OK with you too? How old are the two of you?

Well haha I'm 17 she's 15 :/ and I wouldn't be OK with it.

But I want it to go back the way I was though when we ere happy with each other

[Homegirl 50]

Well she was not that happy if she still had feeling for a girl and wanted time away from you.
I would venture to say this will happen again. You have accepted this behavior.

[FlyingArmadillo]

Well she was not that happy if she still had feeling for a girl and wanted time away from you.
I would venture to say this will happen again. You have accepted this behavior.

I have not accepted it but I asked her if she will stay single and she said she will try her best :/

[talaniman]

I generally leave girls that like somebody else, or are confused about who they want to be with completely alone. Once things change, they seldom go back to the way it used to be.

[FlyingArmadillo]

I generally leave girls that like somebody else, or are confused about who they want to be with completely alone. Once things change, they seldom go back to the way it used to be.

So your saying they rarely go back to way they where.. Im just to kind of person who needs an answer for everything no matter what the answer is and I always try to fix things and make things work

[Homegirl 50]

Things were not that great before if her heart was elsewhere. I don't know how you can make that work. She does not know what she wants or who she is. You need to move on.

[FlyingArmadillo]

Things were not that great before if her heart was elsewhere. I don't know how you can make that work. She does not know what she wants or who she is. You need to move on.

I will try but what if she's comes back should I make sure she means it or what

[Homegirl 50]

I will try but what if shes comes back should i make sure she means it or what

There is no way to make sure she means it. She does not know what she wants. She is still Bi. I would not take her back. There is always going to be something.

[FlyingArmadillo]

There is no way to make sure she means it. She does not know what she wants. She is still Bi. I would not take her back. There is always going to be something.

Figured lol well ill try to move on should we just be friends or no contact at all because I feel that if I talk to her I might try to get back with her :/

[Homegirl 50]

No contact at all.

[FlyingArmadillo]

No contact at all.

Okay thanks