[jeanchie]

My mom was died when I'm still baby and someone adopted me.
I have so many question on myself specially "whos my parent are" I don't even know the name of my mother and father so I can't find my father because I don't know how to find him. I wish my father was also looking for me.. I'm not sure if his still alive or not. Some people told me that his still alive and have another family. Please help me :(

[JudyKayTee]

A lot of this depends on your age - how old are you?

You can post on one of the sites that puts adopted children in touch with birth parents - but both have to register in order to find that connection. If people are telling you your father is alive they must know his identity.

And what do your adoptive parents say?

It is foolish and dangerous to post your name on the Internet.

[jeanchie]

A lot of this depends on your age - how old are you?

You can post on one of the sites that puts adopted children in touch with birth parents - but both have to register in order to find that connection. If people are telling you your father is alive they must know his identity.

And what do your adoptive parents say?

It is foolish and dangerous to post your name on the Internet.

I guess your right. I just don't know what to do .
My adoptive parents doesn't want to say anything about my real parent.

[JudyKayTee]

You didn't answer my question about your age.

Ask the people who say that your father is alive about his identity. They know something.

[jeanchie]

You didn't answer my question about your age.

Ask the people who say that your father is alive about his identity. They know something.

I'm already 21.

[JudyKayTee]

If people know he's alive the same people know his name. Ask them and then post it so I can help you.