[phasedout]

I'm 23 years old, and my last period was December 11th, and now it's March 20th.
I'm going to head to the doctor within the next three weeks (mostly work schedules have been so hectic it hasn't permitted me the time to get an exam.) But I'm posting here in case anyone has any ideas, or things I should ask my doctor. (This will be my first visit regarding something of this nature... )

My periods have been irregular my whole life, I've missed three months before- but I wasn't sexually active, so it wasn't an issue.
I've taken at least 8 HPTs since January 11th, all of which were taken first thing in the morning and turned out negative. I've had ovary pain in BOTH of my ovaries- (which is nothing new- one time as a teen it was so serious I went to the hospital, but they found nothing abnormal, sent me home, and it disappeared.) I've also had cramping like I was on my period off and on.

I have a receptionist job with very long hours (10am-9pm) six days a week, I've been working pretty much every day for the last month and a half. Since my schedule got like this, I haven't had any exercise (no time really... ) and I really don't eat very well.
I've gained about 8-10lbs since my schedule change, which is no surprise seeing as I really do sit in a chair ALL day without moving- but it's still distressing.
All of that has been coupled with off-and-on insomnia, and I've been pretty tired.
I -ALWAYS- have white discharge, I seem to just produce a lot of moisture down there- so I wear light pads almost constantly.

I have no idea what to ask my doctor other than if I'm pregnant. I'm used to these womanly body troubles, but haven't paid any mind. Now that I'm in a serious relationship, he's pressing me to get these things taken care of, and I really don't know where to begin.

Now that I'm writing all of this out it seems silly- I'm just looking for someone who has any idea what could be going on, so I can ask the right questions to my doctor, and pursue the right treatment.
Thanks for reading...

[trespiscado]

I took 10 pregnancy tests that all came up negative. Then I finally went to the doctor and a blood test confirmed I was almost 6 weeks pregnant. That could be the case for you. What do you mean be your partner wanting you to "take care of things"? I hope it doesn't mean what I think it means. If it is, please don't. My poor brother and his wife have been trying to have a baby for 3 years with no such luck. There are other options if you are pregnant than "taking care of it." there are a lot of people that would take that baby that want a child and can't have one of their own.