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bossdaddysad · Mar 23, 2013, 10:56 PM

Well its been almost 2 years were young she's 20 I'm 21 I noticed that she didn't want me kissing on her or touching her or even cuddling in bed at night time (cuddletime) wev had our arguments and fixed them. We never broke up but have been together everyday since we started dating. Just a few nights ago before we went to bed I asked her, what's wrong and be honest with me. She gave me the worse response I could ever hear. Just to mention I'm head over heals for this chick get butterflys everyday I see her still like day 1. she told me I don't think I have feeling for you anymore. To be honest I did start crying as soon as she said that. I asked her why? What did I do wrong? She responded with your just boring anymore. Now we've talked about moving in together and everything from day 1 but I haven't stepped up and had a steady job the whole relationship till the past month. Got a good job making good money and its not making her anymore happy. She's told me she didn't want to tell me because she didn't want to hurt me? I just feel why not say anything at all if your starting to feel like that. I've been 100 with her since day 1. I just don't know what to do at allll! :/ so lost to the world with out her, please help me.

Homegirl 50 · Mar 23, 2013, 11:02 PM

You leave her alone. She does not feel the same way about you, she is not happy. You cannot make someone love you. Walk away with some dignity.

joypulv · Mar 24, 2013, 05:21 AM

Here's the deal: this happens to ALL of us, all over the world, day in and day out, and maybe even twice or more in our lifetimes, and you suffer along with everyone else because there is NOTHING you can do when someone falls out of love with you!
Statistically, she won't be back. There's a slight chance she'll be burned enough by the next relationship that she'll contact you, but even when someone is burned they don't usually go back in time.
Keep busy, let all the grief out to friends and family, and ask them to just drag you around town wherever they go so you aren't alone too much. And not to try to cheer you up yet!