[christinahiphop]

So, we have been together for about 3 months and everything was fine! He was my first boyfriend and he said that he cares for me and things like that! I truly loved and I trusted him but he finally broke my heart in the worst way! He said that he loved me only as a friend and nothing more.

He also said that he doesn't want to lose me and that he wants to stay friends but I couldn't stay friends with him like nothing ever happened! The most painful was the fact that he acted like nothing ever happened and that hurts me most : ( (but when we talked for the last time he told me that he was really sad about that but he showed me the opposite).

After 3 days of the break up, only 3 days he had a new girlfriend and he said that he fell in love! I cannot undertand how he could love another girl so quickly? He broke my heart and now he seems to be really fine! I am kind of fine now because it's overt that he wasn't worth it, but how he could do something like that to me? Does he really love his new girlfriend? Please help me! Thank you!

[Homegirl 50]

You were only dating three months. That is not a long time. In the meantime he met someone he fell for, or maybe he was seeing you both at the same time and realized she is the one he wants. Whether he really loves her is immaterial. He left you and it's time to let go.

[christinahiphop]

Thank you! you're right I should move on!

[fredg]

Move on, as you said. This happens a lot during teen years. He really doesn't love anyone right now, and maybe some day, he will. Smile, and meet others. You will eventually find someone who really does like you, and you him. Good luck.

[christinahiphop]

Thank youu so much! :')

[fdsaqwerish]

Hello Christina,

I'm sorry to hear that your first relationship didn't end very well. Lucky for you though I am assuming that you are still young and have much time to explore the world of interpersonal relationships. Another boy will come and hopefully he will see how special you are. In regards to him believing he loves her, no one can tell another what they are thinking but personally I think that he does not have a full grasp on what love is. Regardless what matters now is you and the fact that you can move on and be happy. Goodluck

-fdsaqwerish

[christinahiphop]

You're completely right! Thanks a lot! :'))

[talaniman]

Young love can change very quickly, and its often the case that the partner is never ready for it, doesn't understand it, and is hurt by the rapid change. Its shocking but not unusual.

The good news is, after the shock has worn off, you go back to being happy just being you, and exploring your fun world.

This was your first experience, and you have many more to come so be ready for the next love adventure.

[christinahiphop]

Your quotes are so true and right! :) thankss!