[andrei23]

Can you please help me... my wife got labored or she born our baby at February 2o, I'm now at abroad and she left in my home town.. my last sex to my wife is march23, and she told to me that she have period on April 20, My question is.. is that possible to be pragnant after your period? The ob gyne tell her that is possible because of the implantation of the baby?it's that right? And my baby is overdue.. because my wife got pragnat at April so starting to count at MAY to FEBRUARY 20 its 10months.. can you please help me if it's that really happened?tenx..

[Alty]

Your post is a little hard to understand, so if I misinterpret something, please let me know.

We'll start with gestation, how long a baby is in the womb before delivery. Normal gestation is 40 weeks. Do the math. There's an average of 4 weeks in a month, sometimes less, sometimes more, so, 40 divided by 4 is? Ya, it's 10 months. Factor in that most babies aren't born on their due date, rather 2 weeks before, or two weeks after (doctors don't let a woman go past 42 weeks).

Your wife had a baby on February 20, I'm assuming you mean last year, since you then said that you had sex with her on March 23, and it's only the 15th of March now. So you haven't had sex with her for over a year, and you're wondering if she's pregnant? Or are you saying that she did indeed get pregnant on March 23?

Again, your post is a bit unclear. If the last time you had sex with your wife was March 23 of last year, she's pregnant, and she still hasn't had the child, then no, that's not normal. It's also not 10 months, it's 8 days away from being a full year. That would mean that this baby is not yours. It's not possible.

[andrei23]

Can you please help me.. my last sex with my wife is on march 23 2012 before I left her.. as of now I'm here at dubai and I left her in philippines, my first month here in dubai is April, the month of April she told me that she have a period on April 20 2012,but only light red blood and only spoting and white slimy her menstration on that month, and after that the weeks go on and the months passess by.. she txting me on February 20 2013 that she delivered our baby boy, and I'm shock because she didn't told me that she is pregnant, and her reason is maybe I go back in philippines when I noticed that she is pragnant,because my first baby boy is died on last 2010 she scared to tell me that thing she didn't want me to worried, but I confussed about that,because my last sex with her is march 23 2012 and she have a period on April 20 2012, the doctor explaine to me that sometimes its happens because its counted of the implantation of the baby?and my wife told me that our baby is 10months delivery... can you please answer my question mam sir help me... thanks.. sorry if my english is not good as well..

[JudyKayTee]

The only way to determine the ID of the father is to perform DNA testing.

[Alty]

can you pls help me..my last sex with my wife is on march 23 2012 before i left her..as of now im here at dubai and i left her in philippines, my first month here in dubai is april, the month of april she told me that she have a period on april 20 2012,but only light red blood and only spoting and white slimy her menstration on that month, and after that the weeks go on and the months passess by..,she txting me on february 20 2013 that she delivered our baby boy, and im shock because she didnt told me that she is pregnant, and her reason is maybe i go back in philippines when i noticed that she is pragnant,because my first baby boy is died on last 2010 she scared to tell me that thing she didnt want me to worried, but i confussed about that,because my last sex with her is march 23 2012 and she have a period on april 20 2012, the doctor explaine to me that sometimes its happens because its counted of the implantation of the baby?and my wife told me that our baby is 10months delivery... can you pls answer my question mam sir help me... thanks.. sorry if my english is not good as well..

You had sex with your wife on March 23, she delivered on February 20. Do the math. That's not 10 months, that's 11.

I'd ask for a DNA test.

[andrei23]

Because my wife experienced that, they adjust the implantation of the baby

[Fr_Chuck]

No it is not possible, tell us what you believe happened.

[andrei23]

I'm here now at abroad and my wife got 44weeks pregnant is that happened? If there's somebody experienced the same as my wife can you share to me your story about your 44weeks pregnancy.. thanks...

[smoothy]

It happened because she had sex with someone during a one month period 44 weeks ago... give or take two weeks.

WHat is your question... this is a question and answer site... not a pregnancy blog.

[ScottGem]

I've merged your threads. Please don't keep starting new threads over the same issue. If you want to ask a follow-up or provide more info, then post a reply to this thread.

If you suspect your wife cheated on you and the child is not yours, then get a DNA test done to establish paternity. It would appear that giving birth on 2/20/13 when you last had sex on 3/23/12 would be an indication that she had sex with someone else. But its not a given. But the only way you will know for sure is a DNA test.

[andrei23]

It happened because she had sex with someone during a one month period 44 weeks ago...give or take two weeks.

WHat is your question...this is a question and answer site...not a pregnancy blog.

Can you please help me.. my last sex with my wife is on march 23 2012 before I left her.. as of now I'm here at dubai and I left her in philippines, my first month here in dubai is April, the month of April she told me that she have a period on April 20 2012,but only light red blood and only spoting and white slimy her menstration on that month, and after that the weeks go on and the months passess by.. she txting me on February 20 2013 that she delivered our baby boy, and I'm shock because she didn't told me that she is pregnant, and her reason is maybe I go back in philippines when I noticed that she is pragnant,because my first baby boy is died on last 2010 she scared to tell me that thing she didn't want me to worried, but I confussed about that,because my last sex with her is march 23 2012 and she have a period on April 20 2012, the doctor explaine to me that sometimes its happens because its counted of the implantation of the baby?and my wife told me that our baby is 10months delivery... can you please answer my question mam sir help me... thanks.. sorry if my english is not good as well..

[smoothy]

You go back 9 months from the date she delivered the baby (assuming it wasn't premature or late)... ANYONE she slept with two weeks before that date.. or two weeks after that date could have been the father. She got pregnant during that one month period.

It might have been you.. it might have been someone else... if YOU was not around that enitire month... then its unlikely to be yours.

The only way you can possibly be certain its yours or not... is with a DNA test.

Could she have had it a month late... its possible but unlikely.

But I'm counting... march 23 2012 (the last date you had sex with her).. even very roughly 9 months is the middle of December 2012... not February 2013... without even looking at a calender.

I believe she had sex with someone after you left... I would demand a DNA test to establish paternity... I bet it proves its not yours... a month there is reasonible room to be wrong... not two months. And by your dates she would have had to be pregnant OVER 10 months... and would have likely grown enough to have required a C- Section.. not a natural birth.

Given the dates you gave... you have good reason to be concerned.

[ScottGem]

You keep posting the same information and asking the same question, when we have already answered you. While its unlikely she was pregnant for so long they only way to determine if you are the father or not is a DNA test.