[navika]

I am a girl of 24 yrs and doing job. My boyfriend is also doing a good job. We had our relationship from 5 yrs. I told my mom about my relationship 5 yrs ago and my boyfriend also met my family 4 months ago, but my family is not accepting him due to his caste. We both are single child of our parents. What should I do? I love him very much and I had tried everything to convince my parents, but they are not getting agree and they said that they will never accept us if we'll do court marriage.



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[smoothy]

You can't win here... you can't plaease your family and yourself both... you have to pick which is more important to you and live with the consequences...

[smkanand]

What caste he is? Sorry to ask but your parents's strong objection must be answered. Even if he is not from high caste, it does not matter. What matter is his good background. If he has good family background then both of you do court marriage. It's OK if your parents does not accept you, you have to marry someone, one day. It's up to you, who you think is important for your future. Can you see good future with this guy? If yes then get married, after evaluating all the aspect of impact of this marriage on you and your children's future. Good luck.