[Stephh23]

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years (he's 20 I'm 18). I feel like I'm losing feelings for him. I don't feel happy to talk to him or excited to see him like I used to. Its like whatever now. When we make love I don't feel any passion its just like okay once again.

I don't feel like I'm in love no more. When we kiss I don't feel anything. I feel like its all gone. We text and I'm just like ugh, I don't feel happy to reply and when we're on the phone I just want to click already. I feel like I get annoyed .

Believe me I hate feelings this way. I don't want to hurt him. I don't know what to do :(

Any advice I'm really lost.

[Fr_Chuck]

You started with him at 15, and to be honest almost no relationship at 15 lasts more than a few months, and almost never a year. You have changed, he has changed, and one of the largest factors you have gotten used to each other, get bored.

The same thing happens with married couples at about 3 or 7 year period.

So talk to him, most likely he is feeling the same way, or can tell you do. If you want to try and make it work, get counseling, start working on the relationship

[talaniman]

Have you talked about it together, honestly and calmly? Does he know how you feel? What are you doing in your life for yourself?

NO communications, no resolutions to your relationship, or your own feelings. You hurt him and the relationship, as well as yourself when you don't communicate. Maybe this thing has been over longer than you both admit.

[MikeBear]

Things change. One can fall "out" of love, just as they fall "in" love. Be honest with him, tell him, then leave. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. I am sure you will meet someone who you will really fall in love with, and he you. Best of luck.