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    #1

    Feb 1, 2013, 11:02 AM
    Does he love me?
    Hi This is Kat's friend borrowing her account... I just really need to know...

    You see basically there's a boy in my school and we've been mates for almost a year and we were both single so we were playfully flirting but only jokingly but then he put on Facebook..
    'That one person who you can't stop thinking about'
    And when I asked him who it was.. he told me it was me saying he fancied me...

    I told him he was funny because I thought he was joking and he hasn't replied so I put why then and he put weldone... weldone? I don't get that...

    Thanks hope someone understands cause I sure as hell don't...
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    #2

    Feb 1, 2013, 11:24 AM
    Why don't you ask him what it means. Why do you think we would?
    Does he love you? I doubt it. He may like you.
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    #3

    Feb 1, 2013, 01:06 PM
    Please open your own account in your own name - this is not allowed.
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    Feb 1, 2013, 01:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Please open your own account in your own name - this is not allowed.
    Wow... Judy is so bitter. I wonder if she likes me.


    Anyway... we can't know if he likes you or what he means. He probably meant that you ripped his heart out and stomped all over it by saying that to him... but then, I'm just guessing.
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    Feb 1, 2013, 01:39 PM
    This is Judy's friend using her account.

    She says the jury is out on how she feels about you.

    This is not Judy. This is her friend. I, her friend, like you - but what do I know?

    I posted the same thing twice !
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    Feb 1, 2013, 01:40 PM
    LMAO... I needed a good laugh today.
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    #7

    Feb 1, 2013, 02:11 PM
    You should open your own account. It's free, so there's no reason not to. The reason this isn't allowed is that many times, especially if someone is starting many posts, we go back and look at other posts to get the whole picture. It's very confusing if two people are using the same account. That's why it's not allowed on this site. This could get Kat banned from AMHD, and I'd hate to see that happen.

    If you don't have your own computer, and want to borrow Kats to start your own account, that's okay, just let the moderators know that the two of you are using the same computer, but different accounts. Then only use your account, never each others.

    As for your situation. It sounds to me like he felt rejected when you literally laughed at him, and said "well done" as in, way to break my heart in front of every one. But that's just a guess. Only he knows what he meant by what he said, so you'll have to ask him.
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    Feb 1, 2013, 02:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    As for your situation. It sounds to me like he felt rejected when you literally laughed at him, and said "well done" as in, way to break my heart in front of every one. But that's just a guess. Only he knows what he meant by what he said, so you'll have to ask him.
    That was my guess too! Only, you were slightly more diplomatic in the way you said it.
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    #9

    Feb 1, 2013, 02:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    That was my guess too! Only, you were slightly more diplomatic in the way you said it.
    I'm learning to be diplomatic. It's a tough lesson, but apparently I can be taught. :)

    Edit:

    Fact is, I like Kat. She's 14, but she actually listens to the advice people give her. I have a 14 year old at home that doesn't listen to a word I say, so this is a breath of fresh air. I'd hate to see her banned because of something like this.
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    Feb 1, 2013, 02:52 PM
    No one is asking that she be banned that I know of - I meant it as a warning that two people cannot use the same screen name. Don't Mods issue warnings before people are banned?

    I only answer from my experience which is the "friend" is always the same person - maybe this is an exception. I don't know. Why muddy the waters?
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    Feb 1, 2013, 03:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    No one is asking that she be banned that I know of - I meant it as a warning that two people cannot use the same screen name. Don't Mods issue warnings before people are banned?

    I only answer from my experience which is the "friend" is always the same person - maybe this is an exception. I don't know. Why muddy the waters?
    I agree.

    I do think it's in the rules, I'd have to double check, that two people using one account, is cause for immediate banning, but that's just a guess, like I said, I'd have to check. I do know it's against the rules, and it's against the rules for a very good reason.
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    #12

    Feb 1, 2013, 03:18 PM
    Thanks for the advice ill make an account soon... btw were not actually friends but sisters but still... thanks I hope kat doesn't get banned either
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    Feb 1, 2013, 03:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kat89007 View Post
    Thanks for the advice ill make an account soon.....btw were not actually friends but sisters but still.............thanks i hope kat doesnt get banned either
    I'm sure she won't. But this should be considered a warning. Start your own account, make sure that the mods know that you're using the same computer, and then ask your questions under your own account.

    Welcome to the site. :)
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    Feb 1, 2013, 03:46 PM
    Thanks... sorry About her she's only 7 and thinks she's 18... she always listens to me and my friends and then thinks she's in love... Thankyou very very much by the way Alty and I'm sure your daughter/son is just like me... im quiet at home... I mean I'm asking questions on the internet instead of to my parents... all teenagers are the same... but thanks anyway... so touched.
    So sorry...
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    #15

    Feb 1, 2013, 04:11 PM
    I understand your home situation is difficult and you were looking to be placed in foster care - is that why you can't talk to your parents?

    Is the other person using your account a friend or sister?
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    #16

    Feb 1, 2013, 04:38 PM
    Sister but she pretends she's my friend because she doesn't like being younger than me and yes... but me and my sister get along..
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    #17

    Feb 1, 2013, 05:12 PM
    So this question is from a 7 year old? I am quite confused.
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    Feb 1, 2013, 07:04 PM
    The explanation has me more confused than the original question. The sister/friend is 7 - and this is how she writes?

    Maybe my spidey senses are off.

    I have no idea.
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    #19

    Feb 1, 2013, 07:21 PM
    Mine too. I'm thinking it was Kat89007 asking another question about the same boy or a different she is suddenly in love with. I'm not buying the sister/friend thing
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    #20

    Feb 1, 2013, 07:57 PM
    Kat, if this is your question, just admit it. No one is buying that this question was posted by a 7 year old child. We all have children of our own, we know how 7 year olds write, and this isn't it. Fact is, your "sisters" writing style, spelling errors, etc, are identical to yours.

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