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lmpyspaceprnces · Jan 19, 2013, 03:48 PM

We've been together for almost two years in July. We've both been under a lot of stress. I felt things have always been one sided. He's never told me he loves me (except when he's drunk then he takes it back the next day) and I feel like he doesn't appreciate me. I asked him what he was doing today and he said he was going out of town. This is the first I've heard of this so I asked what the occasion was. He said he didn't want to tell me and that was that so I should stop asking. I got angry and he told me to stop asking questions because we are not married or living together. I feel like he is not very considerate of my feelings and I think that it might be best to break up with him for my own sanity. I don't know if this is just a slump since he's stressed out from losing his job and I am going through a DUI ticket which is also putting stress on me.

Wondergirl · Jan 19, 2013, 03:51 PM

During times of stress like this, devoted, committed couples pull together, not push each other away. And never being told (or shown) you are loved is a no-brainer and deal-breaker.

talaniman · Jan 19, 2013, 09:14 PM

You have enough stress without this a**hole.

odinn7 · Jan 20, 2013, 08:15 AM

He sounds like a loser and you would probably have less problems in life without him holding you back.

lmpyspaceprnces · Jan 21, 2013, 08:13 PM

Thank you for your responses, I am trying to convince myself that I am better without him its just hard. I had a stupid fantasy in the back of my mind for two years that he would be the one I belonged with. It just feels like part of me has died. I'm thinking about talking to him first and if he doesn't have a reasonable excuse breaking it off. I am coming to the realization that he even if he might never see me as someone he wants to be with since he doesn't even respect me. I just feel worthless, unloveable. He hasn't even contacted me since the incident which probably means he's not even sorry. I'm just waiting to scrape together some courage to confront him. Since he was older I thought he'd be more mature but I'm starting to see he's probably the most immature guy I've ever been with. He's too jaded and I don't want to be brought down with him. Thank you guys for your responses it feels good to have reassurance that I'm not overreacting.

talaniman · Jan 21, 2013, 09:20 PM

Stop wasting time and find your own happiness. Put him far behind you.