[Dalia2012]

Dalia
İ am 22 years old female, I had problems before with period it used to come late, but the past 5 months it has been regular, this month my boyfriend visited me and I haven't seen him for a year. We had unprotected sex in one day of my ovulation but he didn't come inside , even he didn't come near my vagina as I know am

Not sure though if sth went out on me,and I think he got his precum inside of me,  my period is 10 days late, am having headache daiarias and I eat more than usuall, am afraid am pregnant. And if I was my family would kill me I live in avrry conservative area, when I say they will kill me I really mean it, the killing of the honour is even legal in my country. İ will get killed if they knew I even had sex I'm the first place , I need help. What are the percentage that am pregnant? And if I was how can I abort without going to doctors, I can't take medicine or go to doctor because they will certainly tell my family.. Please help, I want to get abortion in anyway even if I doe through the process but not being killed by my family, and I can't runaway, I don't have a cent on me to runaway and I don't get visa to go anywhere because of the political situatipn

[Fr_Chuck]

If it is a matter of life and death, why are you having sex, sorry to sound harsh, but you made a choice and now have to live with it.

There is a good chance you may be pregnant, since there is always pre or early fluids, and yes there is sperm in the early fluids, so having sex with no protection is just asking to be pregnant.

You need to take a pregnancy test in about 4 more days, do it first thing in the morning when you wake it.

The late period could also be stress, an infection, a STD or more. There is no way to tell without testing.

And if you are pregnant, you will need to go to a doctor,

If you are, can the boyfriend not merely make arrangements with your parents to marry you ?

Israel law does not allowed honor killings, although I know it is still done by some Muslims in that nation, but if found out, the Israel police will arrest and prosecute for "honor killings"