[luxmyc14]

I got married recently and my husband is my first man I had sex with.

In the first night of our I didn't have any pain or bleeding. It was so easy for me . But because I didn't get the bleeding my husband is suspecting me. So I told him that to a friend of mine the same thing happen to her. She also didn't get bleed or pain in the first night of hers to. My question is does all girls will get the pain and bleed on the first night. If didn't get means why?

[J_9]

No. Not all women bleed or have pain. The reason for pain and bleeding is the hymen breaking. For many gals the hymen breaks in childhood or teen years due to sports, tampon use, etc. It is actually quite uncommon in today's society to have an intact hymen on the wedding night.

[Fr_Chuck]

It is common for many women not to bleed or feel pain, and some women have lots of pain.

Your husband just needs to believe and trust you if he really loves you.

And unless you live in a culture where being a virgin is some scared art, it really should not have mattered anyway.