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    beccy91 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 7, 2013, 07:24 PM
    How to make my boyfriend want me sexually again?
    I am currently pregnant with our second child. My boyfriend says he is attracted to me but the weight of the baby is too much for him. He has asked me while he was drunk if he can sleep with other girls he. Has been asking other girls for topless photos and trying to organize to go to America and meet up with an old friend.

    I said he could but now I don't want him to because of what has happened. I told him the other day that I don't feel loved any more he told me he was sorry and never wanted me to feel this way. I still don't feel it. How do I fix this? All I want is sex with my boyfriend I don't care if he then gets pics of girls and wants other people as long as he does not have sex with them.

    I don't want him to do it just to make me happy though I want him to be happy about it too. Please help me.
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    Jan 7, 2013, 07:28 PM
    Wait... the father of your child asked if he could have sex with other people while you were pregnant, because he's not sexually attracted to you right now, and you agreed?

    Kick his arse to the curb. What a jerk! I can't believe you're putting up with this, and even allowing it! You're pregnant, and he made you pregnant. Time for mister stud to suck it up!

    Wow!
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    Jan 7, 2013, 07:35 PM
    You are really accepting of this? I can't believe this. Tell him he is an insensitive jerk and he needs to find someone else to be with as you're done with him.
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    Jan 7, 2013, 08:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Wait... the father of your child asked if he could have sex with other people while you were pregnant, because he's not sexually attracted to you right now, and you agreed?

    Kick his arse to the curb. What a jerk! I can't believe you're putting up with this, and even allowing it! You're pregnant, and he made you pregnant. Time for mister stud to suck it up!

    Wow!
    No I did not agree for him to have sex with anyone but me I was up set he even asked when we where having sex he asked if he could I said no but it did not hurt then like it does now
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    Jan 7, 2013, 08:21 PM
    no I did not agree for him to have sex with anyone but me I was up set he even asked when we where having sex he asked if he could I said no but it did not hurt then like it does now
    he has asked me while he was drunk if he can sleep with other girls he has been asking other girls for topless photos and trying to organise to go to america and meet up with a old friend. I said he could
    That's not what you wrote. You wrote that you agreed to him having sex with other girls.
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    Jan 8, 2013, 04:15 AM
    I don't think you should settle for him asking for pics from other girls. When you're drunk, the true person comes out. He was expressing feelings that he probably wouldn't say sober, so you know he's being truthful. Sex is fine but it's not worth your integrity.
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    Jan 10, 2013, 06:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    That's not what you wrote. You wrote that you agreed to him having sex with other girls.
    Sorry I didn't mean it to sound that way I did I meant to say he could see his old mate in america
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