[pink22]

Hi!

This is the first time I am writing my question here ?

Actually I am married from last 3.5 yrs and two months ago me & my husband decided to extend our family . Now we had been try that Iconceive but there has been no luck till now.

I have gone through the basic test that one should before planning as says doctors and all was found OK.

I am quite desperate for the baby now and every month gets very depressed when I get my cycle.

Please help!

Pink22

[automansgirl]

My husband and I are also trying for a baby. You can't let it stress you out! Remember that you actually only have a 20% chance of getting pregnant each month, and for most couples it can take up to a year or longer. If it takes more than a year you should see your doctor about infertility issues. The biggest thing you can do to prevent yourself from falling pregnant is to stress about it. It won't happen! I know it is difficult not to stress over it, but it really is the best thing you can do. You will hear many women say that once they finally quit trying they got pregnant right away! Just relax. A couple of months trying really isn't that long. We've been trying for just over 6 months now, and we still aren't pregnant. I stressed myself out a lot at first and ended up completely missing my ovulation and period. I'm 6 days late for my period now, but have tested negative so far. I wish you the best of luck, and remember to try and stay relaxed about it all.

[brianneelizabeth]

You really need to try and let things happen the way they will, and when trying to conceive make it enjoyable and an exciting time. I wish you all the best.. me and my boyfriend are also trying to conceive after having a what we thought an unplanned pregnant it got our brains tickin so were trying for #2... Wish you the best of luck on the trying to conceive journey and I hope it's a short one

[Fr_Chuck]

You may want to study some of the methods for timming conception, but even so, it can take months to happen, many things are still up to chance

[J_9]

I notice that you say you have been to a doctor and everything is fine with you. Has your husband been?

Men can have fertility issues also. If you have been trying for a while (over a year), I would recommend your husband get tested.

[NowWhat]

First off - you are going to stress yourself out so much that you are going to defeat yourself. Calm down.
Are taking prenatal vitamins? Having that folic acid will help in fertility. Get in tune with your body. Know when you are ovulating. You can have sex all the time - but if you aren't ovulating - you won't be creating anything.

I have had numerous friends and family members get all worked up about not getting pregnant right away. They went months - when they finally got to the point of saying it will happen when it happens - laid the stress down - they got pregnant.

Good Luck and enjoy this time - it is an exciting adventure!

[Scared_and_Confused]

Google preseed. It is a lubricant that is sperm friendly and helps women get pregnant with the lubricant. Also if you do not know your ovulation time have sex every other day. Goodluck

[Matt3046]

Two months is not very long. Relax, there are drugs that can make you have 5 or 6 babies.

[Lacey19]

It took 15 months for me and my partner to conceive. Now I'm 9 weeks pregnant, its just a waiting game sorry hun.