[foxrider7]

Well I was dating some guy for 6 months and during the time he was talking to some chick. I knew about her and said if he continued talking to her that I would be done with him and out of his life but he promised me and everything that she was gone.

Not much time passed before his friend told me that he was talking to her again and getting naked pictures of her. The thing is she lives 6 hours away from where we are so I don't understand why he would continue to talk to her and want to have a relationship with both of us. We agreed to be friends but we were going to work things out slowly and see how things went and to see if we could maybe go back out but then I found out this chick took the bus up here and they had sex and everything which really pissed me off.

He has been trying to keep us from knowing about each other when we already had a clue and end up messaging each other telling one another of all the douche bag stuff he has done. He tells me he cares about me but needs time to think and I said he needs to decide who he wants but he's making it more difficult then it has to be... I'm to my breaking point and don't know what to do :(

[Homegirl 50]

What do you mean you don't know what to do. He lied and cheated on you. What is there to think about? Why would you take him back?

[odinn7]

Really... why is this such a hard decision? As Homegirl said, he lied and cheated... what more do you need?

[talaniman]

Don't know what to do, or don't want to do the right thing for yourself? Nothing to decide just move on. He lied!!

[Alty]

So you're both letting him use you for sex, when he isn't going to commit to either one of you. Why would he make a commitment, he has two girls willing to have sex with him, that both know that they're not the only ones, and they're fighting over who gets to be his girlfriend. He must be really good in bed, or rich. Frankly, even that wouldn't be enough for me to keep him around, I value myself far too much. Do you value yourself?

Why are you sitting around hoping that he'll pick you? He wants to play the field, and he's doing it, and you're letting him. He won't choose, because he doesn't have to. Forget about him and find someone that isn't just looking for random sex partners.