[BabyboomBomb]

I kind of like one guy, he's younger than me like 3 years. (I'm 24 and he's 21) We have met from the internet and decided to meet, but our meeting is kind of meet and then have sex. I am OK with that. So I consider that between me and him, we are type of booty call.

But as a booty call, why he needs to act so gentle? For example, sex, he's type of gentle and type of pleasure me all night long and had brunch the next day. And text regulary to ask me what I am doing? And talk generally like before we met. Maybe it's his personality?

The second time I feel bored so I decided to meet him and expected to have sex. I initiated with kiss but nothing more happen so that time we were just cook, watch TV together and talk to each other at his place.

I'm confuse because I don't know where I am, I expect that OK maybe we are type of hang out and be able to have sex. But for the second time that we met, it ain't like that. Or he may not into me in that sexual way? I perhaps just someone that he hangs out when he has time? Because he's never initiate about meeting, but whenever I asked, the answer is YES for him.

Can you just help me to analyze that what this guy is really want from me? And what should I react then?

Thanks for your help!

[Fr_Chuck]

It sounds like it was to be a booty call for you, he is acting like he wants a relationship, dating, dinner, hanging out, actually getting to know you.

If all you want is sex, not more, make it clear to him, sex and go,

[Homegirl 50]

You're having sex with him, you ought to be able to have a conversation with him.
Ask him what this situation means to him. There is no way we know.

[BabyboomBomb]

Yea you guys are right! And thanks for that!