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    Dec 14, 2012, 08:44 PM
    What do I do with this Chick?
    I'm a sophomore, and she's a freshman. Ok so basically at the beginning of the year, I dropped this one class to join this "fine arts" class (let's call it A class). So my first time in A class I notice this really cute girl who at first seems just friendly and talkative (oh so very talkative). Flash forward a few weeks, we both end up being partners as part of a bigger performance. From there he just starts talking to me little by little more and more. At first it's just casual chit chat like "Oh yea if you help with Ms. Smith's class I'll help you here," that sort of thing. Then she starts touching my stuff. Sometimes I bring my iPad to school (pretty safe school) and she goes for it. I mean I don't mind but it feels kind of weird. Then she starts yapping and yapping about her personal life (thank God I'm a good listener). Then we start poking each other in the hip during class and "pretend" kicking each other. Just childish silliness, which doesn't bother me (after all we're young). I mean I do stuff like that with other girls, its just silly little play. Nothing serious.

    Ok so a few weeks ago the teacher asked her to go to get somestuff from her (teacher's) room. This girl volunteered and as she went out the door she said "Who want's to come with me?". So I'm kida bored and didn't really think michto it, I said "I'll go." So we went but stopped by another teacher, that we both have, and talked to that teacher. Flash forward a few days that teacher comments about what an influence I am on "that little girl." (And that teacher has butted in on my prior relationships before).

    So this one day we have "performances" in front of the whole high school. I see her, we sit down in the auditorium, we talk and then separate. Nothing special. On our way back to class, she starts bossing me around to go up a different stair case (these stairwells have multiple rooms and doors its ridiculous) than everyone else, and we get deprecated from the main mob is students. Next thing I know I'm alone with her in this maze of a stairwell.

    That was the start of her beginning to boss me around into situations where one way or another we end up alone. And don't me wrong, she's nice, cute and funny, I don't mind. I'd say she follows me but truth be told we tend to follow each other.

    But the tuning point I think was a few days ago. Basically we have a night "preformance" and we stayed at school for like 8 hours practicing, rehearsing, and decorating. The whole time she gets progressively edgier on her "orders". "Do this." "Call my mom." "Come here!" She also starts taking my stuff (nostly my phone) again.

    Ok so right before the performance begins, people are packing into the place (it was a kind of coffee house style auditorium with tables and cakes). So there's a table reserved for her family and she ask me to keep her company. So I do. I sit down and we chit chat for a little while. Then her family arrives. They sit down next to me and then comes that awkward moment when her mom and stepdad look at me as if to say "So, you're my daughter's boyfriend?" So she leaves for a moment to get something andI have a slightly awkward conversation with her parents (mostly her stepdad) about her. Nothing special, just "Oh I bet she's a hand full at home." "Haha yea she get's it from her grandma." Afterwards our teacher calls us back to a few hallways behind the stage and we chill in there for a while. Her and I start playig catch with a little green ball and we play around poking and kicking a little more. When she leaves to do her solo preformance another girl in class A talks to me and says "Rumor is: you like her." I say "No" and quickly turn away. So the performance goes on (we were partners) and the night passes without a problem.

    Now I'm stuck wondering, did this girl say something about liking me and word spread or is it really that obvious? And, I does she like me back? She does all this stuff and introduced me to her family so... No point in doing that unless she was trying to send the "You'll be seeing more of him" message to her parents.

    So confused. Should I talk to her or just let it die down and lose interest?
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    Dec 14, 2012, 09:13 PM
    Most likely all ready messed it up telling friend you were not interested, that was back to her most likely before night was over. ( that is how that works)

    What is so hard about being honest if you like someone.

    And yes most likely
    It is obvious
    And most likely, yes she said something

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