[nessa93]

So my ex and I had sex about a month ago where the condom broke (never trusting that brand again as it had no valid reason to happen) and despite him not "releasing" inside me I'm well aware of the pre-ejac. Thing potentially... not only has that happened but about a week and a half to 2 weeks later, just as I had dismissed the thought of possible 'oops' I started to get sick, bloated for the first time in my life, also I've never had stomach cramps like that before and I was nauseous... I was getting concerned.
Normally my periods consist only of leg cramps (concentrated in my knees the day before) and back/hip pain with and irritability the day before then all is right again in 5 days...
The weirder still thing was that we had sex again after I started noticing the weird symptoms and it sort of made them better... (I'm sorry for gory details really but I have no better way to explain) then we noticed the white sheets weren't so white anymore as I had bled... a lot. It was just like period blood but no clumps and it literally ended the next day.
My nausea died off a bit the following days as well... The only thing is I think my areola are a tad bigger, there's more bumps the size of a pen tip near my nipples (I'm really fair skinned and don't usually pay attention to my breasts as their only an A so I don't know about colour but they're sort of tan looking) and I've noticed Ive been moody still, tired all the time but I cannot for the life of me sleep proper at night as I'm up all the time or I don't pass out till 4-5 am and now my legs and hips are killer again but all I seem to notice is more white mucus and I feel like there's a slight odour...
I ask as I haven't felt sick really since the bleeding, was exercising when I felt okay (I haven't in a week due to exhaustion as said and now if I'm pregnant I don't want to over do things) and I've been having moments where I won't eat much due to disinterest then I'm starved and want specific things. Also my um BM are acting the same as pre-period but that's been going on all week and no period!
Worst part is my periods when off because are really sporadic... I haven't had one in 3 or 4 months and I wasn't sexually active again until a month and a half ago and that's normal for me but it makes this guessing game waaay harder.. . I'm 19, done high school and the plan was to take a similar route my ex did and go army this summer as I've wanted to forever now... so I'm always responsible about these things (I always use protection in other-words) I just am in a rough patch can't afford my because yet and nor can I afford the test right now... do you think I could just be sick or something?
I don't know what to do... all I do know is I can't keep it if I am pregnant. On the same hand I don't want to do abortion (learning how its done... made me a little squeamish and I'd rather my mistake have the potential to be someone else's gift if not my own... ) and I don't know how to go about adoption and I especially don't know how to tell Mum if I am... she had me at the same age so I was taught better... I feel guilty and really worried... any advice would be greatly appreciated!

[nessa93]

Someone please answer? I really want to know if I should try and go to a hosp or something to get a test done or if Im being over paranoid :/

[KayleesMommy08]

I have heard of people bleeding and being pregnant. My mom had 2 reg. AF'S before she knew she was pregnant with me. I only spotted pink with mine. I don't think you can ever be too paranoid go get a blood test!