[Dinna]

Hi,I'm in love with one boy,we are good friends,but I can't tell him how much I love him.. I love him 2 years,I have cutted my veins 5 times for him,I love him more tham my shelf,more than everyone.. He don't want to say me just 'HI" some days we are good friends.. Every day I'm crying so much,and I don't know how to tell him.We are really,really,realyyy good friends but I love him so much and please answer this I need your help please :(<3 I can't stop thinking about him :/<3

[Oliver2011]

Nothing says I love you more than cutting yourself. Of course you may come across as a total nut case to him which could ruin it for you. And why are you comparing love to a shelf? Not many love shelving.

[Dinna]

Nothing says I love you more than cutting yourself. Of course you may come across as a total nut case to him which could ruin it for you. And why are you comparing love to a shelf? Not many love shelving.

Yes,but I love him,and no one can understand that how much I love him and I need help.. :)

[Homegirl 50]

You need some counseling. You don't cut yourself because you love someone, you do that because you have other issues.
You need help, but it is not to get this guy.
How old are you?

[hheath541]

"He
don't want to say me just 'HI" some
Days we are good friends."

You're really good friends, but there are days he doesn't want you to even say hi to him? Honey, that is NOT friendship.

It's NOT healthy to be so attached to someone that you cut yourself. I'm guessing you're not 18, yet, so you really should talk to your parents about getting counseling.

[Dinna]

"He
don't want to say me just 'HI" some
days we are good friends."

You're really good friends, but there are days he doesn't want you to even say hi to him? Honey, that is NOT friendship.

It's NOT healthy to be so attached to someone that you cut yourself. I'm guessing you're not 18, yet, so you really should talk to your parents about getting counseling.

Yes but, I don't know how to tell him how much I love him,I'm scared of what he will say,and yes I need help but I can't tell that to my parents that isn't normal for them we are very good friends even best friends and this moorning we were together even all da but I can't tell him I'm scared and I need your HELP !

[Dinna]

You need some counseling. You don't cut yourself because you love someone, you do that because you have other issues.
You need help, but it is not to get this guy.
How old are you?

I'm 14,and I don't need anything only a little help to tell him how much I love him,sometimes I just want to tell him,but I'm scared and I can't :/

[J_9]

How old are you two?

[Dinna]

How old are you two?

I'm 14 and he is 15 :)

[Homegirl 50]

You don't love him. You have an unhealthy crush. Since you say you are good friends, just stay good friends, that is all you are ready for. You need to get help with this cutting thing.

[Dinna]

You don't love him. you have an unhealthy crush. Since you say you are good friends, just stay good friends, that is all you are ready for. You need to get help with this cutting thing.

Yes you're right I don't love him, I adore him you don't know how much I love him I love himm moree than myself.. and please give me some help how to tell him how much I love him,or how to unlove him.. how can I fall in love again but with another guy... we was togeder all day but he want to be just a friend with me and my friends are saying to me that he maybe likes me because he always doing special things about me.. PLEASE HELP MEE!

[Wondergirl]

yes you're right i don't love him, i adore him you don't know how much i love him i love himm moree than myself.. and please give me some help how to tell him how much i love him,or how to unlove him .. how can i fall in love again but with another guy...we was togeder all day but he want to be just a friend with me and my friends are saying to me that he maybe likes me because he always doing special things about me .. PLEASE HELP MEE !!

Here is what you can do. Buy a wire-ring notebook with lines and start a journal (or get a blank diary book). Be sure to date each entry. Write down your thoughts about him and other guys and girlfriends in handwriting or printing as neatly as you can. Pour it all out. Do not tell anyone else what you write down -- it's between you and your journal. Also, no cutting now. Cutting time is over. You are going to stop acting like a needy, insecure girl who does inappropriate activities and is out of control, and you're going to start to grow up. Meanwhile, we will be with you in spirit and available here too when you need to ask a question or vent a little bit.

The strategy in all this is that a journal will clear your mind and solidify your thinking about this boy and guys in general. And maybe you'd be interested in writing a short piece for our site Blog -- something about how difficult it is to be your age or maybe a list of what girls want in a guy or what you would say to your own daughter who is in love. Let me know if you are interested in writing something for the Blog.

[teensportychick]

Good idea! ^ Use this please!!

No guy is worth cutting yourself for... dont tell him you love him. You don't.. you really really don't... I feel like you are using "love" to get attention. Love is such a powerful word and if you love someone you won't cut yourself you will feel happy 24/7 :)

It is amazing and you are going to find that special guy someday and it probably isn't going to be this boy... He will be even better and you will then know what love truly is

[SweetPea95]

Okay... for one... NO CUTTING YOURSELF. You're just a little shy. Even though people might not like my answer, but... right how you feel on a piece of paper and hand it to him at the end of the day. Usually I would say just go up and ask him, but sweetheart... you won't find out unless you ask. Ask him "do you like me like me" or "how much do you like me? do you like me more than a friend?" something like that. Just take a deep breath and ask. :)