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    abott11011 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 1, 2012, 11:47 PM
    All he wants is sex... What should I do?
    So there's this boy I like and I tease him a lot with half nude pics and dirty sayings, we've talked about a relationship but I'm afraid her will just use me for sex and I don't want to be used. Anyone have any ideas on what I should do or say to him?
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    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
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    Dec 1, 2012, 11:53 PM
    How old are the two of you? (I need to know that so I can move this to the correct board.)

    Why are you teasing him with sex if you don't want him to use you?
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    kmcar529 Posts: 31, Reputation: 4
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    Dec 2, 2012, 12:01 AM
    Don't let yourself be used! If you don't want to have sex with him, or don't want to yet, then don't. If he can't accept that, then you shouldn't be dating him.

    I do wonder what you expected to happen, though. If you're talking dirty and sending him half naked pictures now, it's only natural that he would expect MORE once you're in a relationship.
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    Dec 2, 2012, 03:51 AM
    So you are OK with 1/2 nude photos of you being posted on the web, sent to all the kids at your school, perhaps mom and dad seeing them ?

    Happens every day. At a break up, or he uses them to blackmail you, or he sends them to his friends to brag.

    Sounds like you are the one asking for sex, showing off 1/2 naked photos
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    Dec 2, 2012, 05:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    So you are ok with 1/2 nude photos of you being posted on the web, sent to all the kids at your school, perhaps mom and dad seeing them ?

    Happens every day. At a break up, or he uses them to blackmail you, or he sends them to his friends to brag.

    Sounds like you are the one asking for sex, showing off 1/2 naked photos

    Dude I'm 20 I don't think my parents matter and I've think hews more maturethan to brag to his friends
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    Dec 2, 2012, 06:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by abott11011 View Post
    Dude I'm 20 I don't think my parents matter and iv think hews more maturethan to brag to his friends
    If you are 20 why was this posted under Teens (I moved it!)?

    If you don't want to be used then why are you leading him on? By acting slutty, you ruined any chance of having a real relationship because you will never now if he wants you because you appear easy or not. Do both of you a favor and break it off.

    Oh and don't be surprised if those pics do wind up on the Net.
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