[NataliaBrown98]

Is it OK for two 14 year old to have sex? Because I've heard losts of answers!

[joypulv]

No. You don't have the emotional maturity to face the consequences of being pregnant, nor of being dumped after having had such intimacy. I'm not going to go on and on because you can't really understand until you know both the fear of the first one and the pain of the second one. Never mind what it will do to both families.
Also, you have been here asking about boys withconflicting and confusing information..? One boy was 16, now this one is 14, what the heck is going on?

[teensportychick]

I don't think you should because I don't think people should be having sex until you are ready to have a baby... Imagine having a baby right now... Do you think your ready to take care of another human being? I know there is protection you could use but it doesn't always work... for example read the sticky at the top of the teens question page... it is really scary! I know people who have had sex at 14 and been fine but personaly I wouldn't take the risk

[ScottGem]

I'm curious as to what answers you have heard from whom.

Are you prepared, emotionally, p[physically and financially to have a child? Until the answer is yes for all three then sex should be off the table. At 14 the female body is not fully developed and going through a pregnancy can be dangerous to the mother and child. At 14 you are unlikely to have the emotional maturity to handle the relationship changes that sex brings. And at 14 you are highly unlikely to have the financial ability to raise a child.

Anyone telling you it IS OK, is probably another teen who is also too immature to make this decision.

[SweetPea95]

Heck no it is not okay. I'm 17 and I've fooled around and paid for it. I haven't got pregnant but that is because of protection and A LOT of luck. Luck will run out sooner than you think. Once you've had sex you can't get enough. Especially when you're a teen. Some of my friends who are virgins and say they need sex. I tell them "no you don't, because you will just feel miserable" and you do. Until YOU ARE READY TO: support yourself and a home, then support your love one and if you want a child. UNTIL then, you DO NOT have sex.