[lisho1]

Hey guys... am Really in need of help.am in a relationship with this whom I have loved even before we started dating.I knew him for Three months before we started dating.he has a child of one yêar with another woman,they don't have anything going on but I really get jealous when she calls him to talk about the baby things because I feel tha she's just doing it so as to get to him.this has really affected our relationship.sometmimes she would call just to ASK him if she could go somewhere,when I ASK him why she cals to to get permission he would tell me that he vant hate her or tell her that we are dating because he is scared that she mïght do something which will affect the baby,so he says he dors things to protect his child.hellp plissss,is he taking advantge of me.

[Wondergirl]

No, he isn't. You are going to have to accept the fact that this child and this child's mother are going to be part of your boyfriend's life for the rest of his life. If you can't get over this unreasonable jealousy, then I strongly suggest you get out of this relationship, heal from it, and find an unattached guy.

[teacherjenn4]

If you don't want to deal with her, then I suggest you move on and get out with this relationship. He has a child with her and they will always be tied together in that aspect.