[OneDirection260]

I have a boyfriend and I like him a lot. He doesn't always have wifi so we can't always text each other. When he does have wifi I feel like he texts my best friend more than he texts me. It makes me really sad on the inside. I haven't talked to him about it because I don't want him to get mad or something. My friend also has a boyfriend who is my boyfriends best friend. We barely ever talk anymore. I mean at first we were talking like all the time, but now it's like he never texts me. Also at school we are on different teams so I don't really get to talk to him much at school. What do I do?

[dontknownuthin]

You can either decide it's fine and not worry about it or you can decide it's not fine and break up with him.

People have to decide for themselves how they are going to behave and we date them to find out if we want a more serious relationship down the line, based on whether we are compatible, whether we add to each other's lives, whether we feel better or worse when we are with the person. It sounds like he makes you feel bad, so I think you should break up with him. At your age, you'll date a lot of other guys so don't view it as the end of the world. And when you go off from high school to whatever you're doing next - college, military or whatever - you are better off not to have a boyfriend at all so you can fully enjoy the new experience and new people you are going to meet, including having the option to date.

Take care!

[teensportychick]

I think you should talk to him about it... if he gets mad the he is odviously not being faithful and he is trying hide something... or maybe talk to you best friend and just say that you are just feeling sad and just ask your friend to say something to him along the lines of "I feel kinda bad that we text more you text your girlfriend"

[Alty]

Talk to him. Only he knows what's going on. Also talk to your friend.

Is this really an issue, or something that you feel is an issue? How do you know how often he texts your friend?