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    LittleBlackKat Posts: 152, Reputation: 14
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    Nov 12, 2012, 02:48 AM
    Mentally ill or just hateful?
    Long story short friends I thought cared about me and respected me hurt me for no reason and I tried asking them what I did wrong when all I did was support and respect them, they didn't answer me at all-only blocked me and anyone else who is their friend in common and is trying to ask them what I did wrong-they block too.
    Some info : One of them-a man who was like an older brother to me-was always kind and respectful.

    But he told me to add his girlfriend and out of respect for the guy, I did, and she was nice to me as well for a bit, and we got along well and she said she adored me and loved me to death-especially when I reported her abusive friend who punched her in the face and bruised her eye. But I sent her tons of poems and notes to help her cheer up and I made tons of videos to her for respect.

    And last week, she unfriended me for NO reason in all honesty and before she did she wrote the following on my wall : Hi N bye, b**ch mwaaaahahaha xxxx
    And I was absolutely SHOCKED. Someone who I thought cared for me and respected me did that to me.

    And when I questioned my 'brother' he blocked me too and gave NO answer. I get that he loves this woman, but what the heck did I do wrong? Are these people mentally ill?
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    Nov 12, 2012, 08:11 AM
    Since we are talking multiple people... they can't ALL be mentally ill... you you need to take a close and serious look at yourself... and what you have said or done recently...

    Sometimes snarky or sarcastic remarks can be taken differently than intended... but since only you and them knew what has transpired before this... only you can identify what MIGHT have been taken out of context. Of course this would be a lot easier if they actually had the nerve to tell you what it was.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 08:21 AM
    First, it was up to her to report the person who hit her. Not you.

    Second, sending her tons of poems and notes as well as making her videos sounds really creepy. How old are you all? I'm guessing 15.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 08:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    First, it was up to her to report the person who hit her. Not you.

    Second, sending her tons of poems and notes as well as making her videos sounds really creepy. How old are you all? I'm guessing 15.
    No, nice assumption though. I am almost 22. She lives in England and again, I did it out of respect for the other guy-my 'brother'. Many others were doing it as well, so it wasn't just ME alone.

    And answering the question of the other expert/user, I don't think I did anything differently or said anything that could be taken out of context-I looked at all my messages and conversations with these people and nothing seemed out of line ever.

    I think they are too chicken to tell me anything, so that's not my fault.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 08:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by LittleBlackKat View Post
    No, nice assumption though. I am almost 22. She lives in England and again, I did it out of respect for the other guy-my 'brother'. Many others were doing it as well, so it wasn't just ME alone.

    And answering the question of the other expert/user, I don't think I did anything differently or said anything that could be taken out of context-I looked at all my messages and conversations with these people and nothing seemed out of line ever.

    I think they are too chicken to tell me anything, so that's not my fault.
    Also that guy is 30 and the woman is in her late 40's.
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