[riki192]

Me and my girlfriend have been in a long distance relationship for about 7 years now.we met up in holidays many times.we just talk like everyday on the computer.she goes out often with her friend.as she doesn't have lots of friends we talk like everyday.months ago she felt tired of this relationship and wanted a beark to go out and have fun more and I didn't accept and I convinced her that we are going to have a holiday soon.then we talked since that time till the beginning of this month.we planned to have a holiday in November and then in January.she seemed happy and excited.till the begining of this month.she told me she meet new girls from work that she likes and want to go out more.she kept texting me every night to say goodnight.I kept texting her and asked what she was doing and where she has gone then she texted me that she can't keep telling me because she needs a break from this relationship.she just want to go out and have fun.for me I trust her so much.I think she just want to go out more because she has always been talking to me on the comlputer.now she goes out with her friends like everyday and she texts me at night saying goodnight.sweet dreams with kisses.and sometimes with lots of love.im confused and I don't know what to do?
In addition to that.a week ago I texted her in the morning and she called me at night saying she tried to text me back but I had a network problem.we talked for a while and at the end she said she loves me lots.I think she was worried and afraid that I turned off my phone and disappeared.so I'm confused now if she wants a break to end the relationship she wouldn't text me to say gdnight and love and kisses.I think she wants just a break for a while then get back but I'm very confused.it's not very clair...

[Jada-bird]

She sounds confused to but also she sounds like she diverts the conversation every time you need an answer to something it sounds like there is something going on? The fact that there isn't as much of a need to speak so regularly now shows that maybe you are out growing each other and her needs have changed. Don't wait for her because the more she knows you will always be there waiting the less attractive you look to her don't cater to her just go out and have fun to then when you do talk you will have storys to tell aswel and it won't feel so one sided. Don't be moping around get your boys together and go and have fun to. Goodluck