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rock0688 · Oct 28, 2012, 01:37 PM

Hi. I am in love with a guy from 2 yrs. One sided love.
His friend is my best friend. Elder than ne by 2yrs. We talk to each other a lot.
The guy whom I love hurt my feelings. So I was so distrub and was feeling really bad. Then his friend who is my best friend supported me and helped me a lot to get out of it.
One day he suddenly said that he loves me. At that time and because he helped me a lot. I also started to like him.
So we came into relationship. After 2 months we kisses each other, slept but never had sex. He just rubbed his penis on my vagina that's it.
Now my first love has come back to me and said sorry for what he did. He wants to be in relationship with me. Now I am afraid if his best friend reveal our relationship. What will be his first reaction? Will he accpet me? I am feeling really guilty now that I was not honest to him at all. I couldn't wait for him. :'(

Jada-bird · Oct 29, 2012, 11:17 AM

For a start first you weren't in a relationship and secondly there not related by blood the only thing you could be accused of is coming between friends. The fact that the boy you loved did the dirty and then left you to get over it with out fighting for it shows he couldn't have loved you enough in the first place or you both wouldn't of felt the need to break it off. Your feeling guilt right now because the second guy didn't mean anything to you if you compared him to your lover. There's three things you can do be honest with your man risk there not being any relationship but have pure honesty to make a relationship between you both if he forgives you? Or don't be honest risk being called names if it comes out whilst losing him anyway? Or just immigrate and get over both of them because that obviously weren't your lovers true friend or else he would have left you alone and by you doing that with his friend willingly shows you couldn't have cared that much about either of there feelings or friendship to. Goodluck

exenis · Oct 29, 2012, 11:37 AM

If you still love the first guy and think he is in love with you too then be with him..
Your best friend will be hurt but you too should be careful with the guy you loved before.. What if he hurts you again ? What if he treats you the same way as he did?
Cause if he does that again you will be without your best friend and without him in the end..
Think it over before you decide to come running back to the first guy..