[ImLouis]

So I'm interested in to this one girl I've known for some time. It all started when we accidentally hooked up in a bar and ended up spending the night together, just kissing though. We talked afterwards and what was special about it to both of us was that this kind of behavior isn't usual to us and we didn't have any regrets about it at all, as could have been expected.

During the next week we just talked more in general and because of our similarity, I realized we have some sort of deeper connection and she admitted that too. Well later we ended up spending the night together again as earlier. I thought this thing between us was going to get more serious.

Now I feel like this is going nowhere. She told 'she likes me and if this thing gets serious between us, then it gets'. But she seems somehow conflicted. She is suggesting things but she backs off really fast. I don't know if is she playing or what but it seems she has some doubts or issues about this thing because she might suddenly be distant, but on the other hand wants to be with me. This is really confusing me, I don't know what the hell is going on. It's like yes, no, lights on, lights off, etc.

Could it be that the fact she is two years older than me (I'm 20) is somehow an issue to her which is causing these conflictions? Or is she simply not interested in me? I don't know what to do. I just don't want to get stuck with this confusing situation.

Any help is fully appreciated and welcome!

[Homegirl 50]

Then you tell her you are confused by the back and forth and leave her alone.
If she wants you she will make herself more clear.

[ImLouis]

Maybe I should just stop playing her games, forget about her and leave her alone.. That's a hard one but needed to be done I guess.

[Homegirl 50]

Sounds like a good plan.