[ladybug4637]

1. I love women mostly. --Seriously dated 1 guy before. I am not intimately attracted or comfortable with men.
2. I am into jeans, jordans & men boots, hoodies and plaid shirts. --I don't wear makeup, dresses or skirts, and high heels
3. I have my lip and tongue pierced.
4. I smoke cigars
5. I love fixing on broken equipment
6. I have a passion for SUVs and pickup trucks (manual transmission)
7. I like working out
8. I love outdoor adventures
9. I have a passion for chain wallets
10. I love football and hockey

WHAT LABEL AM I?

[J_9]

Why do you feel the need to label yourself?

[ladybug4637]

B/c I have always been curious about what type I am?

[J_9]

There are different levels of bisexuality and lesbianism?

If you were one of the two, you wouldn't be curious. You would KNOW.

Have you stopped sleeping with men? I notice that in April you thought you were pregnant.

[ladybug4637]

yes, I have stopped having sex with a guy "ex-boyfriend" (e.g. first guy I gotten into a serious relationship with) for 6months. I never had sex with no men except for my ex-fiance' at the moment. I am not sexually attracted to men nor do I feel comfortable with them. Just looking at most men makes my flesh crawl.

In April, I broke up but I was never pregnant by him at all! B/c all my test came up negative =). This whole summer, I have been rejecting bad and good guys from wanting to date me. I am into females and always have been ever since kindergarten and up.

[greentree30]

Unless you fall completely on the straight side or completely on the gay side of the spectrum, it can be hard to label yourself and figure out exactly where you are on that spectrum. But the only person who can figure it out best would be you. I know it can be confusing, I use to obsess about it too.

I notice women a lot more than men. Sooo many women are hot! I can count on 1 hand the amount of times a guy gets my attention in 1 year. I'm married, but if I wasn't I probably would have slept with a ton of women at this point! But probably not many men. But at the same time, I can only imagine myself in a long term relationship with a man. And I've only been in love with men. I'm just really particular about the men I like. I can't imagine myself in a long term relationship with a woman. It feels more like a lust thing, I just want to sleep with women. Also, I only watch lesbian porn. But I love having sex with my husband, I'm sexually attracted to him, and he totally gets me off. What does that say about me? Lol I just see myself as bi. Somewhere smack in the middle.

From what you wrote it sounds like you are bi, but lean more towards women. Like 75% into women, 25% into men. That's just a guess. Did your ex fiancé not turn you on? Were you not sexually attracted to him? If you were sexually attracted to him and in love with him, it sounds like you can still be into a few certain types of men.

Just curious have you ever been in love and in a long term relationship with a woman?
If so, was that more fulfilling than the long term relationship with your ex fiancé? (If you are young I can understand you may not have had time to experience that many relationships). The more you experience, the more you'll understand yourself.

Being into only tomboyish clothes (jeans, hoodies and boots), don't like makeup, fixing broken equipment, smoking cigars, love football, etc etc doesn't mean anything in my opinion. There are plenty of straight women who enjoy fixing things, good at fixing a car, don't like wearing dresses or makeup etc. I don't think any of that makes a difference. :-)

Oh I love chain wallets too! They're totally sexy. I kept my brother's chain wallet from the 90's. (although I think I'd end up looking silly wearing it)