[loveromance]

I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 months now. At first everything was OK, then three weeks into the relationship he became distant. I knew from the beginning that he had problems with his job, him having to financially help his family, and wanting to go into the marines. I know it happened fast but we told each other we loved one another and were even talking about future. One more thing, he was married before, and it ended fast.that was a year ago. He hates his job, he has his family he has to support. We would then tLk here nad there, he would tell me, he loved me, wanted to be together, then out of blue he stops texting and calling. SO this morning I send him a message, telling him I loved him, will always be here for him and that I am proud of him. He replies, by "dont love, cause i dont have time to be in a relationship right now, i need to be alone now, i am sorry u fell in love with me, i don't need anybody right now, i just need to be alone,i have to much in my life, i have enough from everything, my head is pounding with problems, i wish u met me in a different time, and not this one, i am too f...ing angry at myself now, thats all i can say""""... please help me, I love him I want to be there for him, I think his depressed, what do I do?? what do you think this meens?? please help.

[Homegirl 50]

You have only been in a relationship with him 2 months and the change happened 3 weeks in to it.
Take him at his word (whether it is true or not) and leave him alone.
He does not want your help. He wants to be left alone. Leave him alone.