[buba30]

My friend is mad me. She is 47 and I'm 30. We met work and became friends. We hang out have lunchand made her food. I always help her and she help me. After I lost my job we were still friends andI gave her flowers and candy. She didn't mine if I put in the car because she didn't want anyone to kknow. I wrote her a poem and came by the job and came outside and I gave it in her hand. Few weeks I came by the job after work she was leaving I got in her car to Starbucks and back. In the car I told her I have a crush she knew for a while. She only like me as a friend. The next week I text her thatI wanted to give her flowers and she said that OK. She is still my and don't need to give her gifts. I said I mail her something for her birthday and said is fined to mail it. The next week I played a trick on her cell phone and she got charge on her phone. I tryied to get hold of her by calling and texting but respond. I went down to see her but she was busy upstairs. I talked for a while with a friend that works their and I told what happen. I was in the store for a while so he gave the message to her because she still up stairs. I already left in went home. He text me and said she is mad. I called her andno respond. I called the next day she pick up and she was upset. She said it's too much drama thatI'm hanging around the store that people talking about us and that I'm texting too much. She also ssaid it's a scandal. I said I was sorry and she don't know she still want to be my friend and she hang up. I told a friend that works their about it and said give her space. I text her few days later and tell her how sad and sorry I'm and I feel bad. I came by she said she not mad and don't feel bad. She said it got to stop and she need space. I Ieft her alone. Someone said she is scared of me and she didn't feel comfortable given her gifts. I though she liked the gifts but no. I think I was too nice to her and always want to give her something or she don't want anyone to know we are friends because of

[TheKidOfTheWise]

I'm just a kid, so don't, take me to seriously, but most of this is mainly from what I think might be the problem. She rejected to you. You are causing rumors and scandals in her workplace. She does nit exactly like this. A lot of times peoole say they do not mind, but that may not be true. Friends don't exactly do the stuff you did. She might be scared of you, and might even think of you as a creep. She might not even be your friend again. You were giving her too much stuff and she didn't want to hurt you so she said it was OK and accepted them. So it is pretty much your fault. You crossed the barrier from a friend to a lover.