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Karamelkelz 282 · Oct 6, 2012, 09:31 PM

Ok I've been friends with a guy for about ten months now. We met at a club and hit it off really well chemistry was on point that we wondered off from our friends sat and talked for hours. So we established from the beginning that we weren't looking to be in a serious relationship just looking to enjoy each others company. So now the problem is that I've fallen in lovw with him for the first 7 months we spent every weekend with each other until he found out that I might have went on a date with another man. So for the past 3 months I've only seen him about 5 times and its bothering me a great deal... I've told him how I feel but he's not willing to see me as often as we us to before. Hes happy with seeing me once a month and calling me daily. Im torn between being his friend and letting go, it hurts either way what is a girl to do?? HELP!!

teacherjenn4 · Oct 6, 2012, 09:55 PM

You broke the boundaries you set up at the beginning. So, since you want more from the relationship, you either need to deal with what time he gives you, or leave. Have you spoken to him about how the relationship has changed and how you would like to to be?

Karamelkelz 282 · Oct 6, 2012, 10:23 PM

Yes... We have talked and I told him that I was going to step back and stop sleeping with and just be friends, he didn't like my decision but wants to continue to be friends as well...

teacherjenn4 · Oct 6, 2012, 10:26 PM

Originally Posted by Karamelkelz 282

Yes..... We have talked and I told him that I was going to step back and stop sleeping with and just be friends, he didnt like my decision but wants to continue to be friends aswell...

So, are you willing to just be friends, or are you ready to move on without him?

Karamelkelz 282 · Oct 6, 2012, 10:29 PM

Truth be told , I don't really want to stop sleeping with him, only doing it in hopes that it will help me with the feelings that I have for him.

Karamelkelz 282 · Oct 6, 2012, 10:35 PM

Im not ready to walk away yet, going to try just being friends... So far its very hard!!

teacherjenn4 · Oct 6, 2012, 11:04 PM

Originally Posted by Karamelkelz 282

Im not ready to walk away yet, going to try just being friends.... So far its very hard!!!

The time apart will probably make the decision easier.

Karamelkelz 282 · Oct 6, 2012, 11:08 PM

Its been 3wks since we last seen each other and it is becoming easier but yet so hard. I think about every free moment I have. Thx!! For the advise only time will tell...