[tabbles]

Okay, I know this sounds crazy and very high schooler like, but here we go. So I have been dating this girl for the last month and for the last two weeks exclusively. We get along really well and hit off instantly from our first date. We've seen each other two or three days a week since. We both have demanding jobs and each have a kid. We have been kind of slacking to see our kids and at our jobs to make time for each other. Any way this past weekend we went out Friday and got drunk and she professed her falling in love to me... which I admittedly did as well and have been for a while with her. By Sunday she was changing her tune and said she wasn't in love she was in lust with me and I told her I loved her. This annoyed me because she always says she hates it when people blame being drunk on their actions which is what she said she was and that why she said that she loved me, but then said she wanted me to move in to her place. Anyway this kind of pissed me off and she wanted to have sex and I wasn't in the mood after that (would have been our first time). So on Monday she seems really distant and is really stressed from work so we still talk everyday and then Friday she asks me again if I want to move in, but there are no strings attached. Meaning we are strictly roommates no more physical stuff. Later that night she goes on and on how she needs to concentrate on her job and her daughter which she already barely sees because of work already. So she is still willing to live with me, and I am like "well I am not sure I can do that because I have feelings for you." She said that nothing can happen because it will just make things more difficult and all that love talk scared her away. At the end of the conversation she said she would think about it and let me know. Four texts explaining myself later and wanting some of my stuff back I have heard nothing. So here's the question what the heck?

So she tell me she loves me and 7 days later she doesn't want to be with me, but wants me to move in with her?

What gives? Should I move in with her? It would help me out financially.

Thoughts? Seriously, our connection is kind of scary. We like the same things (music, food, same sayings), we know what each other is thinking sometimes, every time we hang out all we do is laugh and have a good time (I mean we literally just sit and talk for hours and have the best time).I have been married before (6 years) and I never had near the connection with my wife that I do with this woman. How can I get her back? Will she come back?

[J_9]

Wow! I'm dizzy! This is spinning out of control too fast.

You've only been dating for a month and exclusive for two weeks? That's WAY too early to be "in love" or even moving in together.

Too many red flags already and it's only been two weeks.

Time to put the breaks on before the trains wreck.

[Homegirl 50]

You two don't even know each other and you have no business living with her. I know I wouldn't want a man I have only known a month moving in with me and my daughter.
Maybe she just wants someone to help with the rent, maybe she is just flaky, but you need to leave that alone!