[navya2010]

I have a love marriage in Feb. 2009 in a business family where work outside home is not allowed. The problem with my marriage is that I am very fond of going out but my husband does not take me out even in a week. Sometimes he takes me out but it was possible when I make 100 requests to him. Whereas his brother goes out with his wife and children often twice in a week and for holidays once in a year this irritates me a lot. I also want to go like them but my husband does not have any interest like his brother he want me to sit at home and do house hold work and take care his parents.

But I am not a fool that the big baho of the family go around and I have to do household work. Frankly I don’t want to be in this relation anymore because my husband doesn’t care about my feelings. He always talks to me badly in front of others. He become completely change after 2 year of marriage. He also started drinking which he left for me while marriage.

I am completely disappointed with him. I am in this relationship only because of my two year old daughter. I want to move on and want to do some job but I don’t want to go my parents’ home.

What can I do? Where do I go with my daughter? I am so confused.

[Fr_Chuck]

First does not sound much like a love marriage, before you were married, did you all go out, When did it change if you did?
And whose rules is it that work outside the family is forbidden, what if you did, what would he do. What if you just went out without him, what would happen

[talaniman]

Divorce him and go home to your parents until you can get a job and get on your feet.