[25heartbroken]

Ok well to make a long story short I was with my ex girlfriend for two years and we been through a lot together. Fast forward. Instead of getting back together she said we were going to work on us but not be back together. Ok that was fine with me because I wanted her back in my life how we use to be.

Fast forward. Now she says she just want to be free. She acts like she doesn't care. She told me to move on. She had sex with someone already. She told me she doesn't want me anymore and she's happier without being in my life and she told me she doesn't care if I have sex or get involved with someone.

It hurts because I'm in love with her so much. She was my first real relationship with a woman so my question is how do I move on when I'm so in love with someone that's not even in love with me anymore, and doesn't want me anymore?

I'm having such a hard time letting go I need some advice please?

[Fr_Chuck]

Same as any relationship, you break all contact, stop talking to her, stop seeing her and move on with your life.

[WindChill]

I've been through this also so I know how u feel. If u ever want to talk about it message me and I'll gladly listen :) It gets easier I promise. It took me a long time to get over her but I did and I know u can do it too.

[talaniman]

A break up is never easy for any one especially that special first love but believe it or not, over time you will rebuild a life that you enjoy with friends family, and activities that will heal the hole in your soul and you will look forward to the second/next great love adventure of your life.

It will happen if you let it, and get much better later. We all go through this and we all heal in time.