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    sparkywaslit Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 3, 2012, 09:14 PM
    What to do when your ex girlfriend is dating your best friend
    Okay so, I was dating this girl that I had a major crush on and when everything is going all right she breaks up with me, I showed my affection for her as much as I could so I knew she didn't think that I was boring(I think), after she breaks up with me I ask what the reason was and she said that she can't date me because of what she did, we stayed friends and I kept asking her what it was that made her break up with me, it took a while and finally got her to tell me what it was. When she told me she did it over hotmail and told me that when we were dating she truly loved me and didn't like anyone else, the thing she did was, kiss three other guys because a friend peer pressured her into it, she also told me that she doesn't want to and doesn't think that she will date anyone through high school and half-way through the holidays I begin dating someone else that I knew, I went away to a property my father owns and didn't have connection to Facebook when I was up there, when I got back I called it off with the girl I started to date because I wasn't ready for a girl friend and I rushed into a new relationship. After I broke up with her I went to go and look at the Facebook profile of the girl I had a major crush on and dated and I saw that she was in a relationship with my best friend, I still have feelings for her and I hang out with her with other friends at lunch in school and I have been best friends with m best friend since grade 8, we stuck together when we changed friends and all that, what should I do
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    Oct 3, 2012, 10:25 PM
    That's difficult to deal with. Have you talked to your best friend about it? Did he talk to you about dating her? And I'm sorry but do you really believe she kissed 3 guys because of peer pressure? If she really didn't want to kiss them then she could have walked away and told you when it happened.. I personally think you should talk to your best friend about it, and try to forget about the girl. You will find somebody good.
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    Oct 3, 2012, 11:58 PM
    I haven't talked to my best friend about it and I believe I know what he will say so there is no point because he would have had thought about the talk to and also, my ex says that she did cheat on me and if she says that's what happened so I believe her, as I said we are still friends so at least I still get to see her, besides there is like two other girls I like other than her, one is taken and the other I messed up and also she is in another high school and a high achiever so I don't think I would have a shot with her whether it is looks (she is beautiful) or intelligence and also she is incredibly sweet(from what I remember)
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    Oct 4, 2012, 09:24 AM
    You do nothing. She is not worth it and neither is your so called friend.
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    Oct 9, 2012, 04:37 AM
    Leave them two away, and move forward. You may have a bright future.Good luck.

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