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I met her when she was still with her ex and I also started dating when she was still with him, when I met her she said she loved him but she was not happy, the guy was a real to her, we were just friends at that time and one day we kissed and so it all started, that was like 8 months ago she broke up with him like 4 months ago, Im not shore but it seem like she was just holding on to him out of routine, anyhow thing were going great with us, she wouldn't mention her ex a lot and when she did it was "normal", but recently the guys mom dies and things change, she crys for a week strait Im OK with her going to see them, but the guy throws her out and tells her she is not welcome and we start to have issuse over her feelings, she seems on a guilt trip but she says its not and that I shouldn't mix things that this isn't going to affect us, but it seems it is, we are OK now but once in a wile we get stresed with each other over things, not shore if she not completely over him, she was going out with him for 4 years and was her first, she is 24 year old now, so what do you guys think ?