[Lizzykissxo]

So my boyfriend and I have sex occasionally, and when we do, it's good and he seems to really enjoy it.
But the problem is, it's hardly EVER that we have sex!
It bothers me deeply. He says he is highly attracted to me and finds me sexy and that he wants me, but isn't always "in the mood".
And I know it's not me, because people (including my man) tell me often that I'm attractive and beautiful.
I'm 5' 5", measurements are 36" 25" 36", and I have long black shiny hair and I am extremely hygienic and I keep my "downstairs" waxed, just the way he likes it.
I try different things in bed so I know it's not boredom.
But he just doesn't seem to want the sex as much as I do!
It mostly bothers me because I know I have men who want to sleep with me and it seems that they want me more than my man does!
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, this is really starting to pose a problem on our relationship and destroying my confidence.  

[smoothy]

You are aware there are women with low sex drives too... and not everyone has the same identical drive... that means many times one of the other has the lower drive. If they differ enough, its time to reconsider the relationship... or its going to be a point of friction.

You can't raise his libido any more than you can lower your own.

[teacherjenn4]

If it is a problem, then this relationship is not for you. If you have talked to him about it and things haven't changed, then maybe he isn't the one for you.