[taylorhobbsx]

PLEASE HELP!
I'm having SO much trouble and I'm so confused! What do you think I should do? So I have a boyfriend. Its holidays right now. He asked me out like last week sometime? We've always had kind of an awkward relationship with each other because we'd talk to each other wayyyy more online tehn in person. And even worse, my whole group HATES him (my bf) and he comes to my group every lunch. I go to his group every morning and we just talk. I find it a bit awkward (I don't know if he does) we haven't held hands or ANYTHING yet!! We just hug a lot, but he did put his arm around me on the bus. A lot of people think we are a really awkward couple and I think its so mean! No ones supportive at all!! :/ and all the time he comes at lunch my group moves away so its just me and him and it is kind of awkward, I just want it to feel normal :(
Anyway, its holidays now and he really wants to catch up with me! I KNOW I SHOULD SO ITS LESS AWKWARD! But I'm sooo nervous! I got a haircut the other day (its SOOOO ugly I look soooo bad its not even funny!) so I don't want to see him!! But everyone thinks its so weird how we haven't caught up yet. So I don't know what to do! Should I catch up with him! I'm so confused, everyone thinks I can do SO much better then him. But I love him and that's all that matters. Anyway, we call each other baby and say I love you online, but we haven't said it in person! Is that bad? And he talked about kissing me online and he talks about all that stuff but then when we get to see each other its so awkward
What do I do! Please help me! Do I catch up with him? How do I make this a less awkward relationship? And how do I make people not think we are awkward!! And if we are going to catch up. Where should we? And what do I wear? THANKS SOO MUCH!! Please answer <3 also there aren't really any good movies that w eboth like out right now. And my parents won't let me have a bboyfriend so they can't find out!! And he hasn't told his parents! HELP Please <3

[teacherjenn4]

How old are you both?

[taylorhobbsx]

14! :)

[C0bra_M3nace]

You both seem too young to be in a relationship. I would listen to your parents, if they don't want you to have a boyfriend then you probably shouldn't. Stop trying to grow up so fast and just enjoy your childhood. You'll have plenty of time for relationships when you get older and your parents approve.

[taylorhobbsx]

You both seem too young to be in a relationship. I would listen to your parents, if they don't want you to have a boyfriend then you probably shouldn't. Stop trying to grow up so fast and just enjoy your childhood. You'll have plenty of time for relationships when you get older and your parents approve.

No I won't :( no one will ever like me again!

[C0bra_M3nace]

no i wont :( no one will ever like me again!!

You know, I thought the same thing when I was 14 but you know what, you have plenty of time ahead of you to focus on that. For right now, keep your mind on your studies and do good in school. You'll find the right person in time.

[taylorhobbsx]

You know, I thought the same thing when I was 14 but you know what, you have plenty of time ahead of you to focus on that. For right now, keep your mind on your studies and do good in school. You'll find the right person in time.

Really? :( so what do I do? Thanks so much for answering by the way! Much appreciated <3 <3 <3

[C0bra_M3nace]

really? :( so what do i do?! thanks so much for answering by the way! much appreciated <3 <3 <3

There will come a time when you meet someone and it just feels right. No confusion, no awkwardness and no doubt. Don't worry about that right now though, for now enjoy your childhood because before you know it, it will be gone. You have plenty of time to find someone else.

[taylorhobbsx]

There will come a time when you meet someone and it just feels right. No confusion, no awkwardness and no doubt. Don't worry about that right now though, for now enjoy your childhood because before you know it, it will be gone. You have plenty of time to find someone else.

So I won't marry him? And is it bad because its awkward? How do I make it not? :( do I catch up with him these holidays?

[C0bra_M3nace]

so i wont marry him?? and is it bad because its awkward? how do i make it not? :( do i catch up with him these holidays?

I don't think you're going to marry him, young relationships typically don't last. The awkwardness fades with maturity and comfort. I'd say you both are very shy and uncomfortable with one another. Which is why dating should be left for when you're older and bit more matured.

[taylorhobbsx]

I don't think you're going to marry him, young relationships typically don't last. The awkwardness fades with maturity and comfort. I'd say you both are very shy and uncomfortable with one another. Which is why dating should be left for when you're older and bit more matured.

Okay so how do I make it less awkward!!

[C0bra_M3nace]

okay so how do i make it less awkward!!!

You can't, unless you can both magically become comfortable with each other and somehow stop being so shy.