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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:25 PM
    What are the effects of having sex for the first time?
    I just had it last sept.19. My last period was sept.7,is it possible for me to get pregnant?but my partner releases his sperm outside.so is there any possibilities o I might encounter/feel after having it for the first time?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:29 PM
    Did you use any birth control?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Did you use any birth control?
    No we haven't used it
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:31 PM
    ANY time you have penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy. You can minimize the risk, but not eliminate it.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    No we havent used it
    Then, you can get pregnant.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    ANY time you have penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy. You can minimize the risk, but not eliminate it.
    How can I minimize the risk?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Then, you can get pregnant.
    What can I do to avoid it?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    What can i do to avoid it?
    You can never totally avoid pregnancy when you have sex, but when you use birth control, it lessens the risk of pregnancy. Of course, people do have surgery called sterilization, but usually after they are done having a family.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 05:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    You can never totally avoid pregnancy when you have sex, but when you use birth control, it lessens the risk of pregnancy. Of course, people do have surgery called sterilization, but usually after they are done having a family.
    But as of now what can I do?should I wait for my next period to come just to know that I am not pregnant?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:00 PM
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    But as of now what can i do?should i wait for my next period to come just to know that i am not pregnant?
    That's all you can do. Wait and if you miss your period, wait about two weeks and try a pregnancy test.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    That's all you can do. Wait and if you miss your period, wait about two weeks and try a pregnancy test.
    Thank you.but then again I am Still afraid to get pregnant.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    That's all you can do. Wait and if you miss your period, wait about two weeks and try a pregnancy test.
    Thank you.but then again I am Still afraid to get pregnant.but I am few dayS closer to my next period
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    Thank you.but then again i am Still afraid to get pregnant.but i am few dayS closer to my next period
    You will just have to wait.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    You will just have to wait.
    Thank you.and besideS am also afraid to go to the doctor
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    Thank you.and besideS am also afraid to go to the doctor
    Let this be a learning lesson. If you aren't pregnant, then speak to you Doctor about different types of birth control. You are young, and trust me, you DON'T want to be a mother right now. Just be safe.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 06:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    Thank you.and besideS am also afraid to go to the doctor
    If you are pregnant, you will have to see a doctor. If you aren't, go see a doctor for birth control to reduce your chance of getting pregnant.
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    Sep 21, 2012, 07:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    If you are pregnant, you will have to see a doctor. If you aren't, go see a doctor for birth control to reduce your chance of getting pregnant.
    Thank you
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    Sep 21, 2012, 08:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    Let this be a learning lesson. If you aren't pregnant, then speak to you Doctor about different types of birth control. You are young, and trust me, you DON'T want to be a mother right now. Just be safe.
    Help me please. What am I going to do?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 08:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    If you are pregnant, you will have to see a doctor. If you aren't, go see a doctor for birth control to reduce your chance of getting pregnant.
    Is lower abdominal cramps normal after having it for the first time?
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    Sep 21, 2012, 08:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aika080989 View Post
    help me please. What am i gonna do?
    To tell you the truth, waiting it out is all you can do. If you aren't pregnant, then speak to your Doc about different type of BC.

    Until then, if you two have sex, use protection. When ever you have sex, you run the risk of pregnancy, regardless of what type of protection you use.

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