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    Sep 19, 2012, 08:43 PM
    How do I get my boyfriend to give me a orgaszim
    Ok. My boyfriend and I have sex alomost every day,don't get me wrong I love haven sex with him but I don't get off. He ALWAYS gets his but I can never get to get the big "o" and he tries so hard to get me to get there. Has no problem going down on me and loves to make me feel good... I just don't know how to tell him how to do it...
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    Sep 19, 2012, 09:54 PM
    I don't understand how you don't get off if he has sex with you and goes down? Maybe he needs enlargement pills lmao. With me an my girl it's the other way around she cums 3 or 4 times and it gets dry and she has to go down haha but maybe you should get a dilly o
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    Sep 20, 2012, 04:15 AM
    Many women never get off from just sex, it is foreplay or afterplay. You have to tell him exactly what to do, how long , where and everything.
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    Sep 20, 2012, 06:53 AM
    May I ask how old you are and if you masturbate? Can you climax while masturbating?

    A quick answer is stop trying so hard. The more you focus on having an orgasm, the harder it will be for you to achieve one. Orgasm for females starts in the brain-not the body. If your mind is distracted by trying to achieve a goal instead of letting go and building up the resonance between mind and body then you are going to have a more difficult time climaxing.
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    Sep 20, 2012, 12:51 PM
    If you can't give yourself one how can you expect him to... guys aren't mind readers.. you have to give us guidance to what does it for you. I've been with a couple dozen women in my life... none of them liked it the same way as the others did.

    He can't learn if you don't guide him.
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