What shall I do next?

Lacey19 · Mar 9, 2007, 03:36 AM

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP IM 7DAYS LATE BUT TEST WAS NEGATIVE

Hi Im Lacey I'm 19 and been with my partner for the past 15 months. We have never used any protection mainly because I was under the thought I couldn't have children. Jus under 2 years before I met my partner I had a misscarriage I was very young, I just turned 16.

I have had 3 stomach surgerys 1 to removed my apendix 1 to removed a cyst from my ovary which was the size of a tennis ball. It had twisted my tubes but the doctor said that I should be fine and I could still have children. I then had a camera put in my stomach as I continued to have stomach pains. My periods have been up the wall for the past couple of years but I've never been this late.

I have been getting period pains but no period. I did a test after I was 4 days late and it showed negative. But still no period. I have put on a lot of weight recently but I think that is due to the fact I had a knee operation 5 weeks ago and I've been working from home so I've not really been able to get about.

I really need help and advise I don't know what to do next.

Many thanks

ghost56 · Mar 9, 2007, 03:58 AM

I would say go and see your doctor and ask him to take a pregnancy blood test, it is more accurate than a urine test. Good luck.

buggage · Mar 9, 2007, 07:40 AM

With your past medical history, it is definitely a good idea for you to talk to your doctor about this. Sorry you've had such a rough run of things, and being so young. You're a tough lady. The weight gain and missed period could be from any number of things, but I won't venture to guess, as your doc is the best avenue for you. Good luck, and best wishes. I hope everything turns out fine for you.

Lacey19 · Mar 9, 2007, 09:43 AM

It has ben a very difficult past couple of years for me. When I did have the misscarriage don't get me wrong I was heartbroken but thinking about it now it was the best thing for me. I had only just turned 16 and there is no way I could have brought a baby up on my own. Now I'm a bit more stable. Fingers crossed!

buggage · Mar 9, 2007, 12:52 PM

Yes, sometimes(even though we may not always realize it at the time) nature knows best. Good luck.

Lacey19 · Mar 10, 2007, 12:11 PM

GUESS WHAT! I am pregnant lol

ghost56 · Mar 10, 2007, 12:15 PM

Congratulations, you must be over the moon.

buggage · Mar 10, 2007, 12:17 PM

Congrats! Very good news for you! Good luck and best wishes in your future endeavors.

don8 · Mar 10, 2007, 12:38 PM

That is great news glad it turned out good for you