[LoveSucks12]

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and 6 months. We were once engaged to be married. We once had a little one on the way but unfortunately I had a miscarriage at 4 months. We were each others first love, first to have sex with, first everything. We have been broken up for 3 weeks now and I asked him if we could have sex. Before this we had only texted like once or twice and he was such an ****. But we had sex anyway, and all of these emotions came out. I cried while we had sex and I saw so many emotions going through him also.

After the sex I did not want to let him go. I thought I had moved on because our relationship was just falling apart towards the end and we were just not compatible anymore. He showed me he still loved me and cared about me. =( everything he showed before was just to hide his feelings. So I get home that same day and he sends me a message sayng it was a bad idea. At this point I felt fine no emotions no nothing. And I asked him if he regreted it and he said no.

Now I'm confused and I don't know what to do. Should I just go back into my little world and pretend like nothing happened or should I fight for him. HELP ME PLEASE!

[Fr_Chuck]

Fight for a bad relationship because he is a good lay in bed, you were a booty call for him, since he had not found someone new to have sex with.

You go home and pray you are not pregnant from this and end up with a baby and always wondering about the babies daddy.

How about living in the real world, not going into your own, and leaving him out of it, delete his Facebook, don't answer his phone, don't listen to voice mail, don't look at text, don't read his emails, then start building new relationships, where the relationship works.

[talaniman]

As you see good sex may stir up old feelings, but doesn't make for a healthy relationship. It was a booty call, not a commitment. Don't do that again.