[Georgesp12]

Hey I broke up with my girlfriend after 6 month of a relationship. Things were going so nice until we had a little fight. It was about she wasn't spending so much time with me and I told her that we had to spend more time together. But she told me that she was afraid that she wasn't spending enough time with her friends. It ended up in a little fight and she got mad.

I almost never complained about anything, and I always try to be nice to her, and romantic, I don’t push her, and I love her really bad. Might be because of psychological problem (I can’t get over a person when I am bonded with him/her and in this situation she was the person. It is so difficult for me to make a bond with someone but now that I made one we broke up).

It's been 16 days since we've broken up, and today was my birthday, and she came over with her friends to wish me happy birthday. Some people where making fun of her because of her style, and a friend of hers told that to me before she came to wish me, and I went there and had a fight with 12 guys younger than me though, but that does not matter. So when she left I texted her and told her that I want to speak with her and was waiting for her 40 minutes. And then left because she had no intention to come as I found out.

When I went home I saw a message on the Internet and she told me that she didn’t wanted to come and find me, and got mad that I helped her with those guys and she is able to protect herself alone, and that she does not want me to text her or call her. I told her that I was trying to protect her because I still love her and I wanted to be with her again. She told me that she didn’t want to be with me and that she likes someone else.

I asked advice from many people and they told me that mostly it won’t be true about the other guy and that she is playing with me and will come back to me if I ignore her and be cool etc.

I was her first relationship so I don’t know if it's possible to find someone else so fast and lose all her feelings for me. I need your opinion and if there is a way to get her back.

Thank you in advance.

[talaniman]

Sorry guy but just accept the break up and leave her alone. Maybe she misses you, maybe she doesn't.

[VanessaVRVS]

You don't break up with a girl after one fight! You need to just give her her space for a day and then say your sorry and move on. FORGIVE and FORGET
But just tell her how much you miss her and that it was a really stupid mistake to give her up. Say you are miserable without her... lets hoope it works

[Georgesp12]

Well she blocked me on fb yesterday :/ . Does she hates me so much or what? I am going to try NC for 20 days and if things don't get better I am going to try a last contact message saying that I am sorry if I hurt her and the last thing that I wanted was her to hate me .I'm going to say that I miss her and it was stupid that I gave up to break up so easy(as vanessa told ) but if she already moved on , I am happy for her and I will always be there for her if she's searching for help. It hurts guys , I love her so much but can't do anything if she's already over me I guess. Thank you all for help.

[C0bra_M3nace]

Well she blocked me on fb yesterday :/ . Does she hates me so much or what? I am gonna try NC for 20 days and if things dont get better i am gonna try a last contact message saying that i am sorry if i hurt her and the last thing that i wanted was her to hate me .I'm gonna say that i miss her and it was stupid that i gave up to break up so easy(as vanessa told ) but if she already moved on , i am happy for her and i will always be there for her if she's searching for help. It hurts guys , i love her so much but can't do anything if she's already over me i guess. Thank you all for help.

Don't contact her at all, even after 20 days, that's just going to set you back to square one. You may have made a mistake but don't cry over it, learn from it and don't make the mistake again with the next girl.

[Georgesp12]

Actually I made no mistake , it was both parties fault . Thank you anyway , I'm going to see how things will go.