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    Sep 15, 2012, 07:50 AM
    My girlfriend is Bi and I'm Straight... will this ever work?
    I've heard people say " never get into a relationship with a straight girl" and I kind of see why its so you can avoid questions and thoughts like these I'm so confused of what to do.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 08:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by bribri12 View Post
    I've heard people say " never get into a relationship with a straight girl" and I kind of see why its so you can avoid questions and thoughts like these I'm so confused of what to do.

    Why would people tell a straight male not to get into a relationship with a straight girl? What am I missing?

    I think it depends on the relationship - if you are monogamous, you are monogamous. If you aren't, you aren't.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 08:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Why would people tell a straight male not to get into a relationship with a straight girl? What am I missing?

    I think it depends on the relationship - if you are monogamous, you are monogamous. If you aren't, you aren't.
    No I've heard of people telling bi and lesbian girls not to get in a relationship with a straight girl
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    Sep 15, 2012, 08:59 AM
    You're confusing us.

    You are a girl or a guy?
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    Sep 15, 2012, 09:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    You're confusing us.

    You are a girl or a guy?
    I'm a girl
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    Sep 15, 2012, 09:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by bribri12 View Post
    I'm a girl

    So you are a straight girl and your girlfriend is bi.

    I don't think you're straight if you are female and she is female.

    Please define straight for me.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 09:02 AM
    So you're just messing with us then, right?

    How can you have a girlfriend while being a girl and still tell us that you're straight? There is no way that you can be straight if you have a girlfriend.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 09:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    So you're just messing with us then, right?

    How can you have a girlfriend while being a girl and still tell us that you're straight? There is no way that you can be straight if you have a girlfriend.

    - Just when I think I have the birds and bees all straightened out something like this comes along.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 09:11 AM
    I hear that!
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    Sep 15, 2012, 12:27 PM
    Sorry it's a long complicated story behind this question I should have explained it better but forget it thanks though
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    Sep 15, 2012, 12:33 PM
    We're willing to listen if you're willing to tell.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 12:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bribri12 View Post
    Sorry its a long complicated story behind this question I should have explained it better but forget it thanks though
    If you tell the truth then you don't need to explain.

    We're all confused. You started by saying that your girlfriend is bi, and you're straight. So we all assumed that you're male. Now you're saying that you're female, and dating a girl. That means you're not straight, you're gay. That's fine, and we have no problem with that, we're just confused because you keep saying that you're straight.

    So explain it. Explain what you mean by straight.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 12:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    If you tell the truth then you don't need to explain.

    We're all confused. You started by saying that your girlfriend is bi, and you're straight. So we all assumed that you're male. Now you're saying that you're female, and dating a girl. That means you're not straight, you're gay. That's fine, and we have no problem with that, we're just confused because you keep saying that you're straight.

    So explain it. Explain what you mean by straight.

    I don't understand why someone would take the time and trouble to open an account, get a user name and post a question that makes little sense, then leave when additional info is asked for - ?
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    Sep 15, 2012, 01:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I don't understand why someone would take the time and trouble to open an account, get a user name and post a question that makes little sense, then leave when additional info is asked for - ?
    The only thing I can guess is that she wanted someone to agree with her, but couldn't make her story clear, and when we started questioning things that made no sense, she became frustrated. It's hard to keep your story straight if you're telling a story and not telling the truth.

    Bottom line, she's either a straight male with a bi girlfriend, or a gay female with a bi girlfriend. There is no other option based on what she wrote. Since she claims to be female, dating a female, she's not straight by any means.

    It's too bad she wasn't willing to clear that up for us.
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