[Sasha Pillay]

I am a sexually active person and I have no problem getting to the mood.however when I have sex or even get fingered I experience serious pains and every time it's like I'm a virgin having sex.I'm tired of faking my pleasure and also consulted with my gynacologist bt was told that it's normal.so I'm confused.please help

[CravenMorhead]

Whenever you have sex, and you're a virgin? How does that work? If you've had sex than you're NOT a virgin any more.

Anyhow, have you tried lube?

[Enigma1999]

Whenever you have sex, and you're a virgin? How does that work? If you've had sex than you're NOT a virgin any more.

Anyhow, have you tried lube?

I think she means that the pain is so intense, it's as if she were losing her virginity every time. I'm sure she is aware of how viginity really works, and knows that she is no longer a virgin...

However, with some of the questions we do get on here... you never know...

OP, have you spoken to your gyn about the pain? How long have you been sexually active? Have you tried using a lubricant? Do ALL positions share the same pain?

[Alty]

There is a condition, and I have no idea what it's called, where the woman's hymen doesn't rupture, instead it bruises (for lack of a better word), and basically, every time you have sex you're having sex with hymen still intact, and a lot of pain.

When you saw your gyno what examinations did he/she do?

I can tell you one thing, this amount of pain after the first, second, third or fourth time, is not normal. I'm shocked that a doctor would tell you it is.