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Sep 5, 2012, 07:56 PM
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Is he gay
This is a very confusing situation, we see each other every day, my best friend abd ne spent from 4 to 24 hours together per day, we go to the gym, we watch movies, we go out to eat, to play, we do everything together. I love him, but I treat him only as my best friend, but sometimes we look at each other in the eye for several seconds, and I see something I only have seen in his face, I'm always the one that breaks it because I get really nervous. He is usually that kind of guy that can hide their feelings really well, that's why is so difficult for me to know, we have talk about gay people, and he has exacly the same idea as me. Everyone think we are dating, my mom, his mom, my other friends, they make gay comments about us, we just simply ignore them. He is the one that always look for me, one time I was sitting very close to him in his bed, and when his mother arrived he moved a lot, it was one of the first time I saw him nervous, he is always defending himself toward his attraction to women, like if someone is attacking him, but nobody is. But I really think he is gay, but is trying to deny it to himself, he is a very conservative person, I just think he doesn't want to accept the fact that he is gay. Or maybe I being a very hard person to read too, I sometimes think that I'm the one putting the boundaries, another weird thing is when we go to the movies he sits two sits away from me, but I have the feeling that he is doing that so other people don't think anything.
Do you think I just imagining things, or there is a big possibility that he is gay
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Sep 7, 2012, 05:40 AM
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I have a best friend that I do everything with too, but never does he act this odd. Something about the way he's acting says he might be and is just struggling to understand himself. From the sounds of it you're both young, mid/early teens I would guess? If so, then it's clear that he might noticing these feelings and having a difficult time understanding them. He could be afraid of being judged or teased by you or others. It's really hard to say.
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Sep 7, 2012, 05:43 AM
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 Originally Posted by josephgreen
This is a very confusing situation, we see each other every day, my best friend abd ne spent from 4 to 24 hours together per day, we go to the gym, we watch movies, we go out to eat, to play, we do everything together. I love him, but I treat him only as my best friend, but sometimes we look at each other in the eye for several seconds, and I see something I only have seen in his face, im always the one that breaks it because i get really nervous. He is usually that kind of guy that can hide their feelings really well, thats why is so difficult for me to know, we have talk about gay people, and he has exacly the same idea as me. Everyone think we are dating, my mom, his mom, my other friends, they make gay comments about us, we just simply ignore them. He is the one that always look for me, one time i was sitting very close to him in his bed, and when his mother arrived he moved a lot, it was one of the first time I saw him nervous, he is always defending himself toward his attraction to women, like if someone is attacking him, but nobody is. but I really think he is gay, but is trying to deny it to himself, he is a very conservative person, I just think he doesnt want to accept the fact that he is gay. or maybe I being a very hard person to read too, I sometimes think that im the one putting the boundaries, another weird thing is when we go to the movies he sits two sits away from me, but i have the feeling that he is doing that so other people don't think anything.
Do you think I just imagining things, or there is a big possibility that he is gay
Are you gay, attracted to him and wondering if he feels the same way about you?
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