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Turtle143 · Sep 5, 2012, 04:10 PM

Help I recently started dating this guy that I don't really like and I wanted to break up... but I don't know how I feel we should break up because I'm not ready and I like some other boy but I just don't know how to break up
My first time actually... please help

SArarara46 · Sep 5, 2012, 05:32 PM

OK so you just need to simply sit down and tell him how your feeling its not fair if you leave himsecond guessing also this will be hard but you have to do this don't do it over text that is the most horrible thing for somebody. When you have told him you don't think your relationship is going anywhere his reaction might be begging you to stay if he does this you can't give him any false hope just tell him there's no way he can convince you that you've thaught about it and you have no current feelings if he seems fine with it then that's great you guys can go your separate ways no drama... yup goodluck

Turtle143 · Sep 5, 2012, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by SArarara46

ok so you just need to simply sit down and tell him how your feeling its not fair if you leave himsecond guessing also this will be hard but you have to do this dont do it over txt that is the most horrible thing for somebody. when you have told him you dont think your relationship is going anywhere his reaction might be begging you to stay if he does this you can't give him any false hope just tell him theres no way he can convince you that youve thaught about it and you have no current feelings if he seems fine with it then thats great you guys can go your seperate ways no drama .....yup goodluck

Thanks you so much I sure will :)

teacherjenn4 · Sep 5, 2012, 05:38 PM

You need to tell him in person that although he is a nice guy, you just don't have the type of feelings toward him to continue dating. It is the only decent thing to do.

Turtle143 · Sep 5, 2012, 05:40 PM

Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

You need to tell him in person that although he is a nice guy, you just don't have the type of feelings toward him to continue dating. It is the only decent thing to do.

Than you because I don't feel its right to date him if I like another guy you know and it has been bothering me... I just don't know how to work it
But thank you so much too you guys are helping me

teacherjenn4 · Sep 5, 2012, 05:51 PM

Originally Posted by Turtle143

than you because i dont feel its right to date him if i like another guy you know and it has been bothering me....i just dont know how to work it
but thank you so much too you guys are helping me

You're welcome. We've all dated someone who wasn't right for us. Just tell him how you feel and maybe he feels the same way about you too.